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Sibling

A sibling is a relative that shares at least one parent with the other person. A male sibling is a brother, and a female sibling is a sister. Somebody with no siblings is an only child.

A sister (female sibling) carrying her brother (male sibling).

While some circumstances can cause siblings to be raised separately (such as foster care), most societies have siblings grow up together. This causes the development of strong emotional bonds, with siblinghood considered a unique type of relationship. The emotional bond between siblings is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment, birth order, personality, and personal experiences outside the family.[1]

Medically, a full-sibling is a first-degree relative and a half-sibling is a second-degree relative as they are related by 50% and 25%, respectively.[2][3]

Definitions edit

 
Two brothers from Haiti.

The word sibling was reintroduced in 1903 in an article in Biometrika, as a translation for the German Geschwister, having not been used since Middle English, specifically 1425.[4][5]

Siblings or full-siblings ([full] sisters or brothers) share the same biological parents. Full-siblings are also the most common type of siblings.[citation needed] Twins are siblings that are born from the same pregnancy.[6] Often, twins with a close relationship will develop a twin language from infanthood, a language only shared and understood between the two. Studies corroborate that identical twins appear to display more twin talk than fraternal twins. At about 3, twin talk usually ends.[7] Twins generally share a greater bond due to growing up together and being the same age.

Half-siblings (half-sisters or half-brothers) are people who share one parent. They may share the same mother but different fathers (in which case they are known as uterine siblings or maternal half-siblings), or they may have the same father but different mothers (in which case, they are known as agnate siblings or paternal half-siblings. In law, the term consanguine is used in place of agnate).[citation needed] In law (and especially inheritance law), half-siblings have often been accorded treatment unequal to that of full-siblings. Old English common law at one time incorporated inequalities into the laws of intestate succession, with half-siblings taking only half as much property of their intestate siblings' estates as siblings of full-blood. Unequal treatment of this type has been wholly abolished in England,[8] but still exists in Florida.[9] Three-quarter siblings share one parent, while the unshared parents are siblings to each other, for example, if a man has children with two women who are sisters, or a woman has children with a man and his son. In the first case, the children are half-siblings as well as first cousins; in the second, the children are half-siblings as well as an avuncular pair. They’re genetically closer than half-siblings but less genetically close than full-siblings,[10] a degree of genetic relationship that is rare in humans and little-studied.[11]

Diblings, a portmanteau of donor sibling, or donor-conceived sibling, or donor-sperm sibling, are biologically connected through donated eggs or sperm.[12][13] Diblings are biologically siblings though not legally for the purposes of family rights and inheritance. The anonymity of donation is seen to add complication to the process of courtship.

Non-blood relations edit

Related through affinity:

  • Stepsiblings (stepbrothers or stepsisters) are the children of one's stepparent from a previous relationship.
  • Adoptive siblings are raised by a person who is the adoptive parent of one and the adoptive or biological parent of the other.
  • Siblings-in-law are the siblings of one's spouse, the spouse of one's sibling, or the spouse of one's spouse's sibling.[14][15] The spouse of one's spouse's sibling may also be called a co-sibling.[16][17]

Not related:

  • Foster siblings are children who are raised in the same foster home: foster children of one's parent(s), or the children or foster children of one's foster parent.[18][19][20]
  • God siblings are the children of the godfather or godmother or the godchildren of the father or mother.[citation needed]
  • Milk siblings are children who have been nursed by the same woman. This relationship exists in cultures with milk kinship and in Islamic law.[21]
  • Cross-siblings are individuals who share one or more half-siblings; if one person has at least one maternal half-sibling and at least one paternal half-sibling, the maternal and paternal half-siblings are cross-siblings to each other.[22][dubious ]
Siblings and half-siblings
AdamAgathaAnthony
BryanBettyCyrus
Bryan and Betty are full siblings while Cyrus is their half brother; their relation percentage of consanguinity is 50%.
Siblings, half-siblings, and three-quarter siblings
AliceAnthony
BertCorinaBobbyEdwina
DonnaDavidEmilyFrank
Donna and David are full siblings.
Emily is their three-quarter sibling and Frank's half sister.
Siblings, half siblings, three-quarter siblings, and cross siblings
EgresAbigaAbalBelina
ErikaEframVeniaAbramAsernaZakAgniaBeinMagnolea
JrakeJadenJuliaJanineJakob
Erika and Efram are full siblings; to them, Abram, Aserna, and Agnia are their half-siblings, and Bein is their cross sibling.
Julia and Janine were born to one father and two full-sibling mothers, and are thus three-quarter siblings. Jaden is their cousin, while Jrake and Jakob are their half-cousins.
Jrake and Jaden were born to one mother and two half-sibling fathers, and are thus three-quarter siblings, however, their actual percentage of genetic relation is 31.25% instead of 37.5%. Jrake and Jakob are cross-cousins.

Consanguinity and genetics edit

Consanguinity is the measure of how closely people are related.[23] Genetic relatedness measures how many genes a person shares. As all humans share over 99% of the same genes, consanguinity only matters for the small fraction of genes which vary between different people.[24] Inheritance of genes has a random element to it,[24] and these two concepts are different.[25] Consanguinity decreases by half for every generation of reproductive separation through their most recent common ancestor. Siblings are 50% related by consanguinity as they are separated from each other by two generation (sibling to parent to sibling), and they share two parents as common ancestors ( ).

A fraternal twin is a sibling and, therefore, is related by 50% consanguinity.[26] Fraternal twins are no more genetically similar than regular siblings. As identical twins come from the same zygote, their most recent common ancestor is each other. They’re genetically identical and 100% consanguineous as they’re separated by zero generations ( ).[24] Twin studies have been conducted by scientists to examine the roles that genetics and environment play in the development of various traits. Such studies examine how often identical twins possess the same behavioral trait and compare it to how often fraternal twins possess the same trait.[citation needed] In other studies twins are raised in separate families, and studies compare the passing on of a behavioral trait by the family environment and the possession of a common trait between identical twins. This kind of study has revealed that for personality traits which are known to be heritable, genetics play a substantial role throughout life and an even larger role during early years.[27]

Half-siblings are 25% related by consanguinity as they share one parent and separated from each other by two generations ( ).

A person may share more than the standard consanguinity with their sibling if their parents are related (the coefficient of inbreeding is greater than zero).[citation needed] Interestingly, half-siblings can be related by as "three-quarters siblings" (related by 3/8) if their unshared parents have a consanguinity of 50%. This means the unshared parents are either siblings, making the half-siblings cousins, or parent and child, making them half- aunt-uncle and niece-nephew.[28]

Percentage distribution edit

In practice, full siblings do not share exactly 50% of their DNA, as chromosomal crossover only occurs a limited number of times and, therefore, large chunks of a chromosome are shared or not shared at one time. In fact, the mean DNA fraction shared is 50.28% with a standard deviation of 3.68%,[29] meaning approximately 1/4 of sibling pairs share more than 52.76% of their DNA, while 1/4 share less than 47.8%.[30]

There is a very small chance that two half-siblings might not share any genes if they didn't inherit any of the same chromosomes from their shared parent. This is possible for full-siblings as well, though even more unlikely. But because of how homologous chromosomes swap genes (due to chromosomal crossover during meiosis) during the development of an egg or sperm cell, however, the odds of this ever actually occurring are practically non-existent.[25]

Birth order edit

 
The Benzon Daughters by Peder Severin Krøyer
 
Emperor Pedro II of Brazil with his sisters Princesses Francisca and Januária, 1839

Birth order is a person's rank by age among his or her siblings. Typically, researchers classify siblings as "eldest", "middle child", and "youngest" or simply distinguish between "first-born" and "later-born" children.

Birth order is commonly believed in pop psychology and popular culture to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological development and personality. For example, firstborns are seen as conservative and high-achieving, middle children as natural mediators, and youngest children as charming and outgoing. Despite its lasting presence in the public domain, studies have failed to consistently produce clear, valid, compelling findings; therefore, it has earned the title of a pseudo-psychology amongst the scientific psychological community.[31]

History edit

The theorizing and study of birth order can be traced back to Francis Galton's (1822–1911) theory of birth order and eminence and Alfred Adler's (1870–1937) theory of birth order and personality characteristics.[citation needed]

Galton edit

In his book English Men of Science: Their Nature and Nurture (1874), Galton noted that prominent composers and scientists are over-represented as first-borns.[32] He theorized three main reasons as to why first-borns are generally more eminent:

  1. Primogeniture laws: first-borns have access to their parents' financial resources to continue their education.[32]
  2. First-borns are given more responsibility than their younger siblings and are treated more as companions by their parents.[32]
  3. First-borns are given more attention and nourishment in families with limited financial resources.[32]

Adler edit

  • First Borns: Fulfilling family roles of leadership and authority, obedient of protocol and hierarchy. Seek out and prefer order, structure and adherence to norms and rules. They partake in goal-striving behaviour as their lives are centred around achievement and accomplishment themes. They fear the loss of their position in the top of the hierarchy.[33]
  • Middle Children: Feel like outcasts of families as they lack primacy of the first child and the "attention garnering recency" of the youngest. These children often go to great lengths to de-identify themselves with their siblings, in an attempt to make a different and individualized identity for themselves as they feel like they were "squeezed out" of their families.[33]
  • Youngest Children: Feel disadvantaged compared to older siblings, are often perceived as less capable or experienced and are therefore indulged and spoiled. Because of this, they are skilled in coaxing/charming others to do things for them or provide. This contributes to the image of them being popular and outgoing, as they engage in attention-seeking behaviour to meet their needs.[34]

Contemporary findings edit

Today, the flaws and inconsistencies in birth order research eliminate its validity. It is very difficult to control solely for factors related to birth order, and therefore most studies produce ambiguous results.[33] Embedded into theories of birth order is a debate of nature versus nurture. It has been disproved that there is something innate in the position one is born into, and therefore creating a preset role. Birth order has no genetic basis.[35]

The social interaction that occurs as a result of birth order however is the most notable. Older siblings often become role models of behaviour, and younger siblings become learners and supervisees. Older siblings are at a developmental advantage both cognitively and socially. The role of birth order also depends greatly and varies greatly on family context. Family size, sibling identification, age gap, modeling, parenting techniques, gender, class, race, and temperament are all confounding variables that can influence behaviour and therefore perceived behaviour of specific birth categories.[36] The research on birth order does have stronger correlations, however, in areas such as intelligence and physical features, but are likely caused by other factors other than the actual position of birth. Some research has found that firstborn children have slightly higher IQs on average than later born children.[37] However, other research finds no such effect.[38] It has been found that first-borns score three points higher compared to second borns and that children born earlier in a family are on average, taller and weigh more than those born later.[31] However, it is impossible to generalize birth order characteristics and apply them universally to all individuals in that subgroup.

Contemporary explanations for IQ findings edit

Resource dilution model edit

(Blake, 1981) provide three potential reasons for the higher scoring of older siblings on IQ tests:[32]

  1. Parental resources are finite, first-born children get full and primary access to these resources.[32]
  2. As the number of a children in a family goes up, the more resources must be shared.[32]
  3. These parental resources have an important impact on a child's educational success.[32]
Confluence model edit

Robert Zajonc proposed that the intellectual environment within a family is ever-changing due to three factors, and therefore more permissive of first-born children's intellectual advancement:[32]

  1. Firstborns do not need to share parental attention and have their parents' complete absorption. More siblings in the family limit the attention devoted to each of them.[32]
  2. Firstborns are exposed to more adult language. Later-borns are exposed to the less-mature speech of their older siblings.[32]
  3. Firstborns and older siblings must answer questions and explain things to younger siblings, acting as tutors. This advances their cognitive processing of information and language skills.[32]

In 1996, interest in the science behind birth order was re-sparked when Frank Sulloway’s book Born To Rebel was published. In this book, Sulloway argues that firstborns are more conscientious, more socially dominant, less agreeable, and less open to new ideas compared to later-borns. While being seemingly empirical and academic, as many studies are cited throughout the book, it is still often criticized as a biased and incomplete account of the whole picture of siblings and birth order. Because it is a novel, the research and theories proposed throughout were not criticized and peer-reviewed by other academics before its release.[39] Literature reviews that have examined many studies and attempted to control for confounding variables tend to find minimal effects for birth order on personality.[40][41] In her review of the scientific literature, Judith Rich Harris suggests that birth order effects may exist within the context of the family of origin, but that they are not enduring aspects of personality.[42]

In practice, systematic birth order research is a challenge because it is difficult to control for all of the variables that are statistically related to birth order. For example, large families are generally lower in socioeconomic status than small families, so third-born children are more likely than first-born children to come from poorer families. Spacing of children, parenting style, and gender are additional variables to consider.

Regressive behavior at birth edit

 
A newborn and his brothers
 
Four Sisters (Frank Eugene, about 1900)

Regressive behaviors are the child's way of demanding the parents' love and attention.

The arrival of a new baby is especially stressful for firstborns and for siblings between 3 and 5 years old. In such situations, regressive behavior may be accompanied by aggressive behavior, such as handling the baby roughly. All of these symptoms are considered to be typical and developmentally appropriate for children between the ages of 3 and 5. While some can be prevented, the remainder can be improved within a few months. Regressive behavior may include demand for a bottle, thumb sucking, requests to wear diapers (even if toilet-trained), or requests to carry a security blanket.

The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that instead of protesting or telling children to act their age, parents should simply grant their requests without becoming upset. The affected children will soon return to their normal routine when they realize that they now have just as important a place in the family as the new sibling. Most of the behaviors can be improved within a few months.

The University of Michigan Health System advises that most occurrences of regressive behavior are mild and to be expected; however, it recommends parents to contact a pediatrician or child psychologist if the older child tries to hurt the baby, if regressive behavior does not improve within 2 or 3 months, or if the parents have other questions or concerns.

Rivalry edit

 
Portrait of Lady Cockburn and her Three Eldest Sons (1773–1775) by Joshua Reynolds

"Sibling rivalry" is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters. It appears to be particularly intense when children are very close in age or of the same gender.[43] Sibling rivalry can involve aggression; however, it is not the same as sibling abuse where one child victimizes another.

Sibling rivalry usually starts right after, or before, the arrival of the second child. While siblings will still love each other, it is not uncommon for them to bicker and be malicious to each other.[44] Children are sensitive from the age of 1 year to differences in parental treatment and by 3 years they have a sophisticated grasp of family rules and can evaluate themselves in relation to their siblings.[1] Sibling rivalry often continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents.[45] One study found that the age group 10–15 reported the highest level of competition between siblings.[46] Sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years. Approximately one-third of adults describe their relationship with siblings as rivalrous or distant. However, rivalry often lessens over time and at least 80% of siblings over age 60 enjoy close ties.[1]

Each child in a family competes to define who they are as persons and want to show that they are separate from their siblings. Sibling rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parents' attention, where there is stress in the parents' and children's lives, and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts.[45] Sigmund Freud saw the sibling relationship as an extension of the Oedipus complex, where brothers were in competition for their mother's attention and sisters for their father's.[47] Evolutionary psychologists explain sibling rivalry in terms of parental investment and kin selection: a parent is inclined to spread resources equally among all children in the family, but a child wants most of the resources for him or herself.[46]

Relationships edit

Jealousy edit

Jealousy is not a single emotion. The basic emotions expressed in jealous interactions are fear, anger, relief, sadness, and anxiety.[48] Jealousy occurs in a social triangle of relationships which do not require a third person. The social triangle involves the relationships between the jealous individual and the parent, the relationship between the parent and the rival, and the relationship between jealous individual and the rival.[48]

Newborn edit

First-borns' attachment to their parents is directly related to their jealous behaviour. In a study by Volling, four classes of children were identified based on their different responses of jealousy to new infant siblings and parent interactions. Regulated Exploration Children: 60% of children fall into this category.[48] These children closely watch their parents interact with their newborn sibling, approach them positively and sometimes join the interaction.[48] They show fewer behaviour problems in the months following the new birth and do not display problematic behaviours during the parent-infant interaction.[48] These children are considered secure as they act how a child would be expected to act in a familiar home setting with their parents present as secure bases to explore the environment.[48] Approach-Avoidant Children: 30% of children fall into this category.[48] These children observe parent-infant interaction closely and are less likely to approach the infant and the parent. They are anxious to explore the new environment as they tend to seek little comfort from their parents.[48] Anxious-Clingy Children: 6% of children fell into this category. These children have an intense interest in parent-infant interaction and a strong desire to seek proximity and contact with the parent, and sometimes intrude on parent-child interaction.[48] Disruptive Children: 2.7% of children fall into this category.[48] These children are emotionally reactive and aggressive. They have difficulty regulating their negative emotions and may be likely to externalize it as negative behaviour around the newborn.[48]

Parental effect edit

Children are more jealous of the interactions between newborns and their mothers than they are with newborns and their fathers.[48] This is logical as up until the birth of the infant, the first-born child had the mother as their primary care-giver all to themselves. Some research has suggested that children display less jealous reactions over father-newborn interactions because fathers tend to punish negative emotion and are less tolerant than mothers of clinginess and visible distress, although this is hard to generalize.[48]

Children that have parents with a better marital relationship are better at regulating their jealous emotions.[48] Children are more likely to express jealousy when their parents are directing their attention to the sibling as opposed to when the parents are solely interacting with them.[48] Parents who are involved in good marital communication help their children cope adaptively with jealousy. They do this by modelling problem-solving and conflict resolution for their children. Children are also less likely to have jealous feelings when they live in a home in which everyone in the family shares and expresses love and happiness.[48]

Implicit theories edit

Implicit theories about relationships are associated with the ways children think of strategies to deal with a new situation. Children can fall into two categories of implicit theorizing. They may be malleable theorists and believe that they can affect change on situations and people. Alternatively, they may be fixed theorists, believing situations and people are not changeable.[49] These implicit beliefs determine both the intensity of their jealous feelings, and how long those jealous feelings last.[49] Malleable Theorists display engaging behaviours, like interacting with the parent or sibling in an attempt to improve the situation.[49] They tend to have more intense and longer-lasting feelings of jealousy because they spend more time ruminating on the situation and constructing ways to make it better.[49] Fixed Theorists display non-engaging behaviours, for example retreating to their room because they believe none of their actions will affect or improve the situation.[49] They tend to have less intense and shorter lasting feelings of jealousy than malleable theorists.[49]

Different ages edit

Older children tend to be less jealous than their younger sibling.[48] This is due to their ability to mentally process the social situation in a way that gives them more positive, empathetic feelings toward their younger sibling.[48] Older children are better able to cope with their jealous feelings toward their younger sibling due to their understanding of the necessary relationship between the parent and younger sibling.[48] Older children are also better at self-regulating their emotions and are less dependent on their caregivers for external regulation as opposed to their younger siblings.[48] Younger siblings' feelings of jealousy are overpowered by feelings of anger.[48] The quality of the relationship between the younger child and the older child is also a factor in jealousy, as the better the relationship the less jealous feelings occurred and vice versa.[48]

Conflict edit

Sibling conflict is pervasive and often shrugged off as an accepted part of sibling dynamics. In spite of the broad variety of conflict that siblings are often involved in, sibling conflicts can be grouped into two broader categories.[50] The first category is conflict about equality or fairness. It is not uncommon to see siblings who think that their sibling is favored by their teachers, peers, or especially their parents. In fact it is not uncommon to see siblings who both think that their parents favor the other sibling. Perceived inequalities in the division of resources such as who got a larger dessert also fall into this category of conflict. This form of conflict seems to be more prevalent in the younger sibling.[50]

The second category of conflict involves an invasion of a child's perceived personal domain by their sibling. An example of this type of conflict is when a child enters their sibling's room when they are not welcome, or when a child crosses over into their sibling's side of the car in a long road trip. These types of fights seem to be more important to older siblings due to their larger desire for independence.[50]

Warmth edit

Sibling warmth is a term for the degree of affection and companionship shared by siblings. Sibling warmth seems to have an effect on siblings. Higher sibling warmth is related to better social skill and higher perceived social competence. Even in cases where there is a high level of sibling conflict if there is also a high level of sibling warmth then social skills and competence remain unaffected.[51]

Negative effects of conflict edit

 
Sibling physical conflict

The saying that people "fight like siblings" shows just how charged sibling conflict can be and how well recognized sibling squabbles are. In spite of how widely acknowledged these squabbles can be, sibling conflict can have several impacts on the sibling pair. It has been shown that increased levels of sibling conflict are related to higher levels of anxiety and depression in siblings, along with lower levels of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. In addition, sibling warmth is not a protective factor for the negative effects of anxiety, depression, lack of self-worth and lower levels of academic competence. This means that sibling warmth does not counteract these negative effects.[51] Sibling conflict is also linked to an increase in more risky behavior including: smoking cigarettes, skipping days of school, contact with the police, and other behaviors in Caucasian sibling pairs with the exception of firstborns with younger brothers. Except for the elder brother in this pair sibling conflict is positively correlated with risky behavior, thus sibling conflict may be a risk factor for behavioral problems.[52] A study on what the topic of the fight was (invasion of personal domain or inequality) also shows that the topic of the fight may have a result on the effects of the conflict. This study showed that sibling conflict over personal domain were related to lower levels of self-esteem, and sibling conflict over perceived inequalities seem to be more related to depressive symptoms. However, the study also showed that greater depressive and anxious symptoms were also related to more frequent sibling conflict and more intense sibling conflict.[50]

Parental management techniques of conflict edit

Techniques used by parents to manage their children's conflicts include parental non-intervention, child-centered parental intervention strategies, and more rarely the encouragement of physical conflict between siblings. Parental non-intervention included techniques in which the parent ignores the siblings' conflict and lets them work it out between themselves without outside guidance. In some cases, this technique is chosen to avoid situations in which the parent decides which sibling is in the right and may favor one sibling over the other, however, by following this technique the parent may sacrifice the opportunity to instruct their children on how to deal with conflict. Child-centered parental interventions include techniques in which the parent mediates the argument between the two children and helps them come to an agreement. Using this technique, parents may help model how the children can deal with conflicts in the future; however, parents should avoid dictating the outcome to the children, and make sure that they are mediating the argument making suggestions, allowing the children to decide the outcome. This may be especially important when some of the children have autism.[53] Techniques in which parents encourage physical aggression between siblings may be chosen by the parents to help children deal with aggression in the future, however, this technique does not appear to be effective as it is linked to greater conflict levels between children. Parental non-intervention is also linked to higher levels of sibling conflict, and lower levels of sibling warmth. It appears that child-centered parental interventions have the best effect on sibling's relationship with a link to greater levels of sibling warmth and lower levels of sibling conflict.[54]

Long-term effects of presence edit

Studies on social skill and personality differences between only children and children with siblings suggest that overall the presence of a sibling does not have any effect on the child as an adult.[55]

Gender roles among children and parents edit

There have always been some differences between siblings, especially different sex siblings. Often, different sex sibling may consider things to be unfair because their brother or sister is allowed to do certain things because of their gender, while they get to do something less fun or just different. McHale and her colleague conducted a longitudinal study using middle-childhood aged children and observed the way in which the parents contributed to stereotypical attitudes in their kids. In their study the experimenters analysed two different types of families, one with the same sex siblings, and the other with different sex siblings, as well as the children's birth order.[56] The experiment was conducted using phone interviews, in which the experimenters would ask the children about the activities they performed throughout their day outside of school.[56] The experimenters found that in the homes where there were mixed gender kids, and the father held traditional values, the kids also held traditional values and therefore also played gender based roles in the home.[56] In contrast, in homes where the father did not hold traditional values, the house chores were divided more equally among his kids.[56] However, if fathers had two male children, the younger male tended to help more with household chores, but as he reached his teenage years the younger child stopped being as helpful around the house. However, education may be a confounder affecting both the father's attitude and the siblings' behavior, and the mother's attitudes did not have a noticeable impact.[56]

Westermarck effect edit

Anthropologist Edvard Westermarck found that children who are brought up together as siblings are desensitized to sexual attraction to one another later in life. This is known as the Westermarck Effect. It can be seen in biological and adoptive families, but also in other situations where children are brought up in close contact, such as the Israeli kibbutz system and the Chinese shim-pua marriage.[57][58]

See also edit

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Further reading edit

  • Kluger, Jeffrey (2012). The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us. Penguin. ISBN 978-1594486111.

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sibling, redirects, here, television, series, series, other, uses, disambiguation, sibling, relative, that, shares, least, parent, with, other, person, male, sibling, brother, female, sibling, sister, somebody, with, siblings, only, child, sister, female, sibl. Siblings redirects here For the television series see Siblings TV series For other uses see Siblings disambiguation A sibling is a relative that shares at least one parent with the other person A male sibling is a brother and a female sibling is a sister Somebody with no siblings is an only child A sister female sibling carrying her brother male sibling While some circumstances can cause siblings to be raised separately such as foster care most societies have siblings grow up together This causes the development of strong emotional bonds with siblinghood considered a unique type of relationship The emotional bond between siblings is often complicated and is influenced by factors such as parental treatment birth order personality and personal experiences outside the family 1 Medically a full sibling is a first degree relative and a half sibling is a second degree relative as they are related by 50 and 25 respectively 2 3 Contents 1 Definitions 1 1 Non blood relations 2 Consanguinity and genetics 2 1 Percentage distribution 3 Birth order 3 1 History 3 1 1 Galton 3 1 2 Adler 3 2 Contemporary findings 3 2 1 Contemporary explanations for IQ findings 3 2 1 1 Resource dilution model 3 2 1 2 Confluence model 4 Regressive behavior at birth 5 Rivalry 6 Relationships 6 1 Jealousy 6 1 1 Newborn 6 1 2 Parental effect 6 1 3 Implicit theories 6 1 4 Different ages 6 2 Conflict 6 3 Warmth 6 4 Negative effects of conflict 6 5 Parental management techniques of conflict 6 6 Long term effects of presence 7 Gender roles among children and parents 8 Westermarck effect 9 See also 10 References 11 Further reading 12 External linksDefinitions editThis section needs additional citations for verification Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources in this section Unsourced material may be challenged and removed April 2023 Learn how and when to remove this message nbsp Two brothers from Haiti The word sibling was reintroduced in 1903 in an article in Biometrika as a translation for the German Geschwister having not been used since Middle English specifically 1425 4 5 Siblings or full siblings full sisters or brothers share the same biological parents Full siblings are also the most common type of siblings citation needed Twins are siblings that are born from the same pregnancy 6 Often twins with a close relationship will develop a twin language from infanthood a language only shared and understood between the two Studies corroborate that identical twins appear to display more twin talk than fraternal twins At about 3 twin talk usually ends 7 Twins generally share a greater bond due to growing up together and being the same age Half siblings half sisters or half brothers are people who share one parent They may share the same mother but different fathers in which case they are known as uterine siblings or maternal half siblings or they may have the same father but different mothers in which case they are known as agnate siblings or paternal half siblings In law the term consanguine is used in place of agnate citation needed In law and especially inheritance law half siblings have often been accorded treatment unequal to that of full siblings Old English common law at one time incorporated inequalities into the laws of intestate succession with half siblings taking only half as much property of their intestate siblings estates as siblings of full blood Unequal treatment of this type has been wholly abolished in England 8 but still exists in Florida 9 Three quarter siblings share one parent while the unshared parents are siblings to each other for example if a man has children with two women who are sisters or a woman has children with a man and his son In the first case the children are half siblings as well as first cousins in the second the children are half siblings as well as an avuncular pair They re genetically closer than half siblings but less genetically close than full siblings 10 a degree of genetic relationship that is rare in humans and little studied 11 Diblings a portmanteau of donor sibling or donor conceived sibling or donor sperm sibling are biologically connected through donated eggs or sperm 12 13 Diblings are biologically siblings though not legally for the purposes of family rights and inheritance The anonymity of donation is seen to add complication to the process of courtship Non blood relations edit Related through affinity Stepsiblings stepbrothers or stepsisters are the children of one s stepparent from a previous relationship Adoptive siblings are raised by a person who is the adoptive parent of one and the adoptive or biological parent of the other Siblings in law are the siblings of one s spouse the spouse of one s sibling or the spouse of one s spouse s sibling 14 15 The spouse of one s spouse s sibling may also be called a co sibling 16 17 Not related Foster siblings are children who are raised in the same foster home foster children of one s parent s or the children or foster children of one s foster parent 18 19 20 God siblings are the children of the godfather or godmother or the godchildren of the father or mother citation needed Milk siblings are children who have been nursed by the same woman This relationship exists in cultures with milk kinship and in Islamic law 21 Cross siblings are individuals who share one or more half siblings if one person has at least one maternal half sibling and at least one paternal half sibling the maternal and paternal half siblings are cross siblings to each other 22 dubious discuss Siblings and half siblings AdamAgathaAnthony BryanBettyCyrus Bryan and Betty are full siblings while Cyrus is their half brother their relation percentage of consanguinity is 50 Siblings half siblings and three quarter siblings AliceAnthony BertCorinaBobbyEdwina DonnaDavidEmilyFrank Donna and David are full siblings Emily is their three quarter sibling and Frank s half sister Siblings half siblings three quarter siblings and cross siblings EgresAbigaAbalBelina ErikaEframVeniaAbramAsernaZakAgniaBeinMagnolea JrakeJadenJuliaJanineJakob Erika and Efram are full siblings to them Abram Aserna and Agnia are their half siblings and Bein is their cross sibling Julia and Janine were born to one father and two full sibling mothers and are thus three quarter siblings Jaden is their cousin while Jrake and Jakob are their half cousins Jrake and Jaden were born to one mother and two half sibling fathers and are thus three quarter siblings however their actual percentage of genetic relation is 31 25 instead of 37 5 Jrake and Jakob are cross cousins Consanguinity and genetics editConsanguinity is the measure of how closely people are related 23 Genetic relatedness measures how many genes a person shares As all humans share over 99 of the same genes consanguinity only matters for the small fraction of genes which vary between different people 24 Inheritance of genes has a random element to it 24 and these two concepts are different 25 Consanguinity decreases by half for every generation of reproductive separation through their most recent common ancestor Siblings are 50 related by consanguinity as they are separated from each other by two generation sibling to parent to sibling and they share two parents as common ancestors 1 2 2 1 2 2 displaystyle left tfrac 1 2 right 2 left tfrac 1 2 right 2 nbsp A fraternal twin is a sibling and therefore is related by 50 consanguinity 26 Fraternal twins are no more genetically similar than regular siblings As identical twins come from the same zygote their most recent common ancestor is each other They re genetically identical and 100 consanguineous as they re separated by zero generations 1 2 0 displaystyle left tfrac 1 2 right 0 nbsp 24 Twin studies have been conducted by scientists to examine the roles that genetics and environment play in the development of various traits Such studies examine how often identical twins possess the same behavioral trait and compare it to how often fraternal twins possess the same trait citation needed In other studies twins are raised in separate families and studies compare the passing on of a behavioral trait by the family environment and the possession of a common trait between identical twins This kind of study has revealed that for personality traits which are known to be heritable genetics play a substantial role throughout life and an even larger role during early years 27 Half siblings are 25 related by consanguinity as they share one parent and separated from each other by two generations 1 2 2 displaystyle left tfrac 1 2 right 2 nbsp A person may share more than the standard consanguinity with their sibling if their parents are related the coefficient of inbreeding is greater than zero citation needed Interestingly half siblings can be related by as three quarters siblings related by 3 8 if their unshared parents have a consanguinity of 50 This means the unshared parents are either siblings making the half siblings cousins or parent and child making them half aunt uncle and niece nephew 28 Percentage distribution edit In practice full siblings do not share exactly 50 of their DNA as chromosomal crossover only occurs a limited number of times and therefore large chunks of a chromosome are shared or not shared at one time In fact the mean DNA fraction shared is 50 28 with a standard deviation of 3 68 29 meaning approximately 1 4 of sibling pairs share more than 52 76 of their DNA while 1 4 share less than 47 8 30 There is a very small chance that two half siblings might not share any genes if they didn t inherit any of the same chromosomes from their shared parent This is possible for full siblings as well though even more unlikely But because of how homologous chromosomes swap genes due to chromosomal crossover during meiosis during the development of an egg or sperm cell however the odds of this ever actually occurring are practically non existent 25 Birth order editMain article Birth order nbsp The Benzon Daughters by Peder Severin Kroyer nbsp Emperor Pedro II of Brazil with his sisters Princesses Francisca and Januaria 1839 Birth order is a person s rank by age among his or her siblings Typically researchers classify siblings as eldest middle child and youngest or simply distinguish between first born and later born children Birth order is commonly believed in pop psychology and popular culture to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological development and personality For example firstborns are seen as conservative and high achieving middle children as natural mediators and youngest children as charming and outgoing Despite its lasting presence in the public domain studies have failed to consistently produce clear valid compelling findings therefore it has earned the title of a pseudo psychology amongst the scientific psychological community 31 History edit The theorizing and study of birth order can be traced back to Francis Galton s 1822 1911 theory of birth order and eminence and Alfred Adler s 1870 1937 theory of birth order and personality characteristics citation needed Galton edit In his book English Men of Science Their Nature and Nurture 1874 Galton noted that prominent composers and scientists are over represented as first borns 32 He theorized three main reasons as to why first borns are generally more eminent Primogeniture laws first borns have access to their parents financial resources to continue their education 32 First borns are given more responsibility than their younger siblings and are treated more as companions by their parents 32 First borns are given more attention and nourishment in families with limited financial resources 32 Adler edit First Borns Fulfilling family roles of leadership and authority obedient of protocol and hierarchy Seek out and prefer order structure and adherence to norms and rules They partake in goal striving behaviour as their lives are centred around achievement and accomplishment themes They fear the loss of their position in the top of the hierarchy 33 Middle Children Feel like outcasts of families as they lack primacy of the first child and the attention garnering recency of the youngest These children often go to great lengths to de identify themselves with their siblings in an attempt to make a different and individualized identity for themselves as they feel like they were squeezed out of their families 33 Youngest Children Feel disadvantaged compared to older siblings are often perceived as less capable or experienced and are therefore indulged and spoiled Because of this they are skilled in coaxing charming others to do things for them or provide This contributes to the image of them being popular and outgoing as they engage in attention seeking behaviour to meet their needs 34 Contemporary findings edit Today the flaws and inconsistencies in birth order research eliminate its validity It is very difficult to control solely for factors related to birth order and therefore most studies produce ambiguous results 33 Embedded into theories of birth order is a debate of nature versus nurture It has been disproved that there is something innate in the position one is born into and therefore creating a preset role Birth order has no genetic basis 35 The social interaction that occurs as a result of birth order however is the most notable Older siblings often become role models of behaviour and younger siblings become learners and supervisees Older siblings are at a developmental advantage both cognitively and socially The role of birth order also depends greatly and varies greatly on family context Family size sibling identification age gap modeling parenting techniques gender class race and temperament are all confounding variables that can influence behaviour and therefore perceived behaviour of specific birth categories 36 The research on birth order does have stronger correlations however in areas such as intelligence and physical features but are likely caused by other factors other than the actual position of birth Some research has found that firstborn children have slightly higher IQs on average than later born children 37 However other research finds no such effect 38 It has been found that first borns score three points higher compared to second borns and that children born earlier in a family are on average taller and weigh more than those born later 31 However it is impossible to generalize birth order characteristics and apply them universally to all individuals in that subgroup Contemporary explanations for IQ findings edit Resource dilution model edit Blake 1981 provide three potential reasons for the higher scoring of older siblings on IQ tests 32 Parental resources are finite first born children get full and primary access to these resources 32 As the number of a children in a family goes up the more resources must be shared 32 These parental resources have an important impact on a child s educational success 32 Confluence model edit Robert Zajonc proposed that the intellectual environment within a family is ever changing due to three factors and therefore more permissive of first born children s intellectual advancement 32 Firstborns do not need to share parental attention and have their parents complete absorption More siblings in the family limit the attention devoted to each of them 32 Firstborns are exposed to more adult language Later borns are exposed to the less mature speech of their older siblings 32 Firstborns and older siblings must answer questions and explain things to younger siblings acting as tutors This advances their cognitive processing of information and language skills 32 In 1996 interest in the science behind birth order was re sparked when Frank Sulloway s book Born To Rebel was published In this book Sulloway argues that firstborns are more conscientious more socially dominant less agreeable and less open to new ideas compared to later borns While being seemingly empirical and academic as many studies are cited throughout the book it is still often criticized as a biased and incomplete account of the whole picture of siblings and birth order Because it is a novel the research and theories proposed throughout were not criticized and peer reviewed by other academics before its release 39 Literature reviews that have examined many studies and attempted to control for confounding variables tend to find minimal effects for birth order on personality 40 41 In her review of the scientific literature Judith Rich Harris suggests that birth order effects may exist within the context of the family of origin but that they are not enduring aspects of personality 42 In practice systematic birth order research is a challenge because it is difficult to control for all of the variables that are statistically related to birth order For example large families are generally lower in socioeconomic status than small families so third born children are more likely than first born children to come from poorer families Spacing of children parenting style and gender are additional variables to consider Regressive behavior at birth editThis section does not cite any sources Please help improve this section by adding citations to reliable sources Unsourced material may be challenged and removed July 2008 Learn how and when to remove this message nbsp A newborn and his brothers nbsp Four Sisters Frank Eugene about 1900 Regressive behaviors are the child s way of demanding the parents love and attention The arrival of a new baby is especially stressful for firstborns and for siblings between 3 and 5 years old In such situations regressive behavior may be accompanied by aggressive behavior such as handling the baby roughly All of these symptoms are considered to be typical and developmentally appropriate for children between the ages of 3 and 5 While some can be prevented the remainder can be improved within a few months Regressive behavior may include demand for a bottle thumb sucking requests to wear diapers even if toilet trained or requests to carry a security blanket The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that instead of protesting or telling children to act their age parents should simply grant their requests without becoming upset The affected children will soon return to their normal routine when they realize that they now have just as important a place in the family as the new sibling Most of the behaviors can be improved within a few months The University of Michigan Health System advises that most occurrences of regressive behavior are mild and to be expected however it recommends parents to contact a pediatrician or child psychologist if the older child tries to hurt the baby if regressive behavior does not improve within 2 or 3 months or if the parents have other questions or concerns Rivalry editMain article Sibling rivalry nbsp Portrait of Lady Cockburn and her Three Eldest Sons 1773 1775 by Joshua Reynolds Sibling rivalry is a type of competition or animosity among brothers and sisters It appears to be particularly intense when children are very close in age or of the same gender 43 Sibling rivalry can involve aggression however it is not the same as sibling abuse where one child victimizes another Sibling rivalry usually starts right after or before the arrival of the second child While siblings will still love each other it is not uncommon for them to bicker and be malicious to each other 44 Children are sensitive from the age of 1 year to differences in parental treatment and by 3 years they have a sophisticated grasp of family rules and can evaluate themselves in relation to their siblings 1 Sibling rivalry often continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents 45 One study found that the age group 10 15 reported the highest level of competition between siblings 46 Sibling rivalry can continue into adulthood and sibling relationships can change dramatically over the years Approximately one third of adults describe their relationship with siblings as rivalrous or distant However rivalry often lessens over time and at least 80 of siblings over age 60 enjoy close ties 1 Each child in a family competes to define who they are as persons and want to show that they are separate from their siblings Sibling rivalry increases when children feel they are getting unequal amounts of their parents attention where there is stress in the parents and children s lives and where fighting is accepted by the family as a way to resolve conflicts 45 Sigmund Freud saw the sibling relationship as an extension of the Oedipus complex where brothers were in competition for their mother s attention and sisters for their father s 47 Evolutionary psychologists explain sibling rivalry in terms of parental investment and kin selection a parent is inclined to spread resources equally among all children in the family but a child wants most of the resources for him or herself 46 Relationships editFurther information Sibling relationship Jealousy edit See also Attachment theory Attachment patterns Jealousy is not a single emotion The basic emotions expressed in jealous interactions are fear anger relief sadness and anxiety 48 Jealousy occurs in a social triangle of relationships which do not require a third person The social triangle involves the relationships between the jealous individual and the parent the relationship between the parent and the rival and the relationship between jealous individual and the rival 48 Newborn edit First borns attachment to their parents is directly related to their jealous behaviour In a study by Volling four classes of children were identified based on their different responses of jealousy to new infant siblings and parent interactions Regulated Exploration Children 60 of children fall into this category 48 These children closely watch their parents interact with their newborn sibling approach them positively and sometimes join the interaction 48 They show fewer behaviour problems in the months following the new birth and do not display problematic behaviours during the parent infant interaction 48 These children are considered secure as they act how a child would be expected to act in a familiar home setting with their parents present as secure bases to explore the environment 48 Approach Avoidant Children 30 of children fall into this category 48 These children observe parent infant interaction closely and are less likely to approach the infant and the parent They are anxious to explore the new environment as they tend to seek little comfort from their parents 48 Anxious Clingy Children 6 of children fell into this category These children have an intense interest in parent infant interaction and a strong desire to seek proximity and contact with the parent and sometimes intrude on parent child interaction 48 Disruptive Children 2 7 of children fall into this category 48 These children are emotionally reactive and aggressive They have difficulty regulating their negative emotions and may be likely to externalize it as negative behaviour around the newborn 48 Parental effect edit Children are more jealous of the interactions between newborns and their mothers than they are with newborns and their fathers 48 This is logical as up until the birth of the infant the first born child had the mother as their primary care giver all to themselves Some research has suggested that children display less jealous reactions over father newborn interactions because fathers tend to punish negative emotion and are less tolerant than mothers of clinginess and visible distress although this is hard to generalize 48 Children that have parents with a better marital relationship are better at regulating their jealous emotions 48 Children are more likely to express jealousy when their parents are directing their attention to the sibling as opposed to when the parents are solely interacting with them 48 Parents who are involved in good marital communication help their children cope adaptively with jealousy They do this by modelling problem solving and conflict resolution for their children Children are also less likely to have jealous feelings when they live in a home in which everyone in the family shares and expresses love and happiness 48 Implicit theories edit Implicit theories about relationships are associated with the ways children think of strategies to deal with a new situation Children can fall into two categories of implicit theorizing They may be malleable theorists and believe that they can affect change on situations and people Alternatively they may be fixed theorists believing situations and people are not changeable 49 These implicit beliefs determine both the intensity of their jealous feelings and how long those jealous feelings last 49 Malleable Theorists display engaging behaviours like interacting with the parent or sibling in an attempt to improve the situation 49 They tend to have more intense and longer lasting feelings of jealousy because they spend more time ruminating on the situation and constructing ways to make it better 49 Fixed Theorists display non engaging behaviours for example retreating to their room because they believe none of their actions will affect or improve the situation 49 They tend to have less intense and shorter lasting feelings of jealousy than malleable theorists 49 Different ages edit Older children tend to be less jealous than their younger sibling 48 This is due to their ability to mentally process the social situation in a way that gives them more positive empathetic feelings toward their younger sibling 48 Older children are better able to cope with their jealous feelings toward their younger sibling due to their understanding of the necessary relationship between the parent and younger sibling 48 Older children are also better at self regulating their emotions and are less dependent on their caregivers for external regulation as opposed to their younger siblings 48 Younger siblings feelings of jealousy are overpowered by feelings of anger 48 The quality of the relationship between the younger child and the older child is also a factor in jealousy as the better the relationship the less jealous feelings occurred and vice versa 48 Conflict edit Sibling conflict is pervasive and often shrugged off as an accepted part of sibling dynamics In spite of the broad variety of conflict that siblings are often involved in sibling conflicts can be grouped into two broader categories 50 The first category is conflict about equality or fairness It is not uncommon to see siblings who think that their sibling is favored by their teachers peers or especially their parents In fact it is not uncommon to see siblings who both think that their parents favor the other sibling Perceived inequalities in the division of resources such as who got a larger dessert also fall into this category of conflict This form of conflict seems to be more prevalent in the younger sibling 50 The second category of conflict involves an invasion of a child s perceived personal domain by their sibling An example of this type of conflict is when a child enters their sibling s room when they are not welcome or when a child crosses over into their sibling s side of the car in a long road trip These types of fights seem to be more important to older siblings due to their larger desire for independence 50 Warmth edit Sibling warmth is a term for the degree of affection and companionship shared by siblings Sibling warmth seems to have an effect on siblings Higher sibling warmth is related to better social skill and higher perceived social competence Even in cases where there is a high level of sibling conflict if there is also a high level of sibling warmth then social skills and competence remain unaffected 51 Negative effects of conflict edit nbsp Sibling physical conflict The saying that people fight like siblings shows just how charged sibling conflict can be and how well recognized sibling squabbles are In spite of how widely acknowledged these squabbles can be sibling conflict can have several impacts on the sibling pair It has been shown that increased levels of sibling conflict are related to higher levels of anxiety and depression in siblings along with lower levels of self worth and lower levels of academic competence In addition sibling warmth is not a protective factor for the negative effects of anxiety depression lack of self worth and lower levels of academic competence This means that sibling warmth does not counteract these negative effects 51 Sibling conflict is also linked to an increase in more risky behavior including smoking cigarettes skipping days of school contact with the police and other behaviors in Caucasian sibling pairs with the exception of firstborns with younger brothers Except for the elder brother in this pair sibling conflict is positively correlated with risky behavior thus sibling conflict may be a risk factor for behavioral problems 52 A study on what the topic of the fight was invasion of personal domain or inequality also shows that the topic of the fight may have a result on the effects of the conflict This study showed that sibling conflict over personal domain were related to lower levels of self esteem and sibling conflict over perceived inequalities seem to be more related to depressive symptoms However the study also showed that greater depressive and anxious symptoms were also related to more frequent sibling conflict and more intense sibling conflict 50 Parental management techniques of conflict edit Techniques used by parents to manage their children s conflicts include parental non intervention child centered parental intervention strategies and more rarely the encouragement of physical conflict between siblings Parental non intervention included techniques in which the parent ignores the siblings conflict and lets them work it out between themselves without outside guidance In some cases this technique is chosen to avoid situations in which the parent decides which sibling is in the right and may favor one sibling over the other however by following this technique the parent may sacrifice the opportunity to instruct their children on how to deal with conflict Child centered parental interventions include techniques in which the parent mediates the argument between the two children and helps them come to an agreement Using this technique parents may help model how the children can deal with conflicts in the future however parents should avoid dictating the outcome to the children and make sure that they are mediating the argument making suggestions allowing the children to decide the outcome This may be especially important when some of the children have autism 53 Techniques in which parents encourage physical aggression between siblings may be chosen by the parents to help children deal with aggression in the future however this technique does not appear to be effective as it is linked to greater conflict levels between children Parental non intervention is also linked to higher levels of sibling conflict and lower levels of sibling warmth It appears that child centered parental interventions have the best effect on sibling s relationship with a link to greater levels of sibling warmth and lower levels of sibling conflict 54 Long term effects of presence edit Studies on social skill and personality differences between only children and children with siblings suggest that overall the presence of a sibling does not have any effect on the child as an adult 55 Gender roles among children and parents editThere have always been some differences between siblings especially different sex siblings Often different sex sibling may consider things to be unfair because their brother or sister is allowed to do certain things because of their gender while they get to do something less fun or just different McHale and her colleague conducted a longitudinal study using middle childhood aged children and observed the way in which the parents contributed to stereotypical attitudes in their kids In their study the experimenters analysed two different types of families one with the same sex siblings and the other with different sex siblings as well as the children s birth order 56 The experiment was conducted using phone interviews in which the experimenters would ask the children about the activities they performed throughout their day outside of school 56 The experimenters found that in the homes where there were mixed gender kids and the father held traditional values the kids also held traditional values and therefore also played gender based roles in the home 56 In contrast in homes where the father did not hold traditional values the house chores were divided more equally among his kids 56 However if fathers had two male children the younger male tended to help more with household chores but as he reached his teenage years the younger child stopped being as helpful around the house However education may be a confounder affecting both the father s attitude and the siblings behavior and the mother s attitudes did not have a noticeable impact 56 Westermarck effect editAnthropologist Edvard Westermarck found that children who are brought up together as siblings are desensitized to sexual attraction to one another later in life This is known as the Westermarck Effect It can be seen in biological and adoptive families but also in other situations where children are brought up in close contact such as the Israeli kibbutz system and the Chinese shim pua marriage 57 58 See also editImmediate family List of sibling groups Sibling relationship Sibling estrangement Siblings Day Sladdbarn Step sibling Multiple birth List of twins Triplet Twin Other symmetric relations Cousin Friend Sibling in law Significant other 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