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Marriage in Korea

Marriage in Korea mirrors many of the practices and expectations of marriages in other societies. Modern practices are a combination of millennia-old traditions and global influences.

Marriage in Pre-Modern Korea edit

The practice of matrilocality in Korea started in the Goguryeo period, continued through the Goryeo period and ended in the early Joseon period.[1][2] The Korean saying that when a man gets married, he is "entering jangga" (the house of his father-in-law), stems from the Goguryeo period.[3]

Marriage during the Goryeo period (918–1392) edit

Marriages during the Goryeo period were made primarily on the basis of political and economic considerations, at least among the aristocracy.[citation needed]

King T'aejo, the founder of the Goryeo dynasty, had 29 queens with which he built alliances with other aristocratic families. However, he married all but two of his daughters to their half brothers, rather than using them to further build and affirm alliances. A strategy continued by his successors.[4] The practice of marrying royal daughters to half brothers ended under the insistence of the Mongol Empire, and the Mongol and Korean royal families exchanged princesses.[4]: 60  The kings of Goryeo married the imperial princesses of the Yuan dynasty (Mongol Empire), beginning with the marriage of King Chungnyeol to a daughter of Kublai Khan. Cousin marriage was common in the early Goryeo period, and non-royal aristocrats married daughters to half brothers of different mothers also. However, such consanguineous marriages were gradually prohibited by banning such individuals' children from attaining positions in the state bureaucracy and later came to labeled as adulterous but often persisted despite these sanctions.[4]

In contrast with the prevailing custom of patrilocal residence for married couples during the Joseon period and modern era, Koreans of the Goryeo period it was not uncommon for a husband to matrilocally reside with his wife and her parents after marriage.[4] Wedding ceremonies were held at the home of the bride's family and the average age of marriage was late teens with aristocrats marrying earlier than commoners.[4] Weddings included gift exchange and a banquet, which were meant to display the bride's family's wealth.[4] There was no exchange of bride wealth or dowry.[4] Marriages were often arranged by matchmakers.[4] Goryeo society was highly stratified and kinship and status were determined bilaterally, including the status and relatives of both mothers and fathers.[4] Thus, unlike during the Joseon period, brides and husbands remained members of both their natal kin group and their affinal family after marriage. Marriage ideally did not lead to the division of the household into smaller units and families preferred to retain their daughters after marriage, with or without their husbands. The prospect of an inheritance from in-laws may have been a significant motivation for husbands to take up residence with their wives' Kin.[4] Inheritance was not determined by primogeniture and both sons and daughters received equal shares of inheritance from their parents.[4]

Although plural marriages were practiced, wives and their offspring were not ranked and each had equal claim as heirs. Marriages could easily be broken by husbands or wives.[4] A woman who remarried too frequently could gain a negative reputation as promiscuous, but Koreans of the Goryeo dynasty were not seen as prudish, at least by Chinese standards of the time.[4] There were no prohibitions against widows remarrying apart from having to observe a period of mourning.[4] Offspring of a widower were retained by their mother and her family.[4]

Marriage during the Joseon period (1392–1910) edit

Distinctions were introduced at the beginning of the Joseon dynasty, in imitation of feudal imperial China, which distinguished primary and secondary wives, thereby clarifying the line of succession.[4] Essential criteria for a primary wife was that she entered her husband's family as a virgin, and that she could not be descended from low-class ancestry in the case of marriages to noblemen, who, at the introduction of this rule, were forced to choose which of their already multiple wives to designate as primary. In imitation of the Ming criminal code, primary wives could not be divorced for another, and wives’ rankings could not be re-ordered.[4] The purpose of the reform ranking wives was to increase the clarity of distinctions of social status across society.[4] From then on elites generally chose their first wives from fellow Yangban families, while choosing secondary wives from the lower classes, increasing the distinction between the Yangban aristocracy and commoners.[4]

During this period patrilocal residence after marriage became the norm through royally dictated changes to laws governing mourning obligations and inheritance rights.[4] This shift was accomplished in part through increasingly strict restrictions on consanguineous marriages, first outlawing marriage to matrilinial first cousins, then extending to second cousins and ultimately expanding to prohibit marriage between individuals of the same surname by 1669.[4] In 1427 another Chinese law was adopted that fixed the marriageable age of first marriage at 15-years of age for men and 14-years for women, although if a parent was chronically ill or elderly (over 50) the marriage age limit could be lowered to 12.[4] The rationale for preventing early marriage was the belief that children married too young would not be sufficiently socialized to understand the duties of spouses and also thus incapable of properly socializing their own children.[4] However, this law was frequently violated.[4] Aristocratic Yangban men tended to marry younger than commoners.[4] Concern among legislators over the perceived lack of marriageable women led to the passage of laws that made families subject to punishment for failing to marry her off at an appropriate time.[4]

Marriage in North Korea edit

Following the establishment of communist regime in North Korea in the late 1940s, the regulations on family matters between North and South started to diverge, as the North Korean government quickly introduced a set of new laws and regulations affecting family law. One of the impetus for new laws was a revolutionary rhetoric endorsing gender equality[5] (however, gender equality in North Korea remains a major issue, with most independent observes concluding that North Korea is still far from achieving parity between genders[6]).

Engagement is not legally recognized. Marriage is allowed at age 18 (for boys) and 17 (for girls). Unlike in South Korea, there are no legal provisions regulating or banning marriage between persons in cases of consanguinity or other types of familial relations. Divorce is allowed, subject to administrative approval.[5]

As of the late 2010s, marriage rates in North Korea have been reported as very high (over 96% of adults aged 30+ are married), and divorce rates as very low (less than 1% of North Korean population is classified as separated or divorced according to official data).[7]

Arranged marriage is still popular in North Korea.[8]

Marriage in South Korea edit

Eligibility and prohibitions edit

Marriage in South Korea is currently restricted to unions between individuals of the opposite sex as same-sex marriages remain unrecognized.[9] Males over 18 and females over 16 years old may marry with their parents' or guardians' consent. Otherwise South Korea's age of consent to marriage is 20 in Korean age (19 in international age). 20 years of age is also the age of consent for sexual activity.[10] These age limits refer to one's lunar calendar based age, which tend to be one or two years greater than one's solar age. South Korea also recognizes what it calls "De Facto Marriages" equivalent to "Common Law Marriages" of couples who have not legally registered their marriage but who have either 1. made it publicly known that their relationship is akin to a marriage, 2. had a public wedding ceremony, or 3. have been cohabiting as though they are married.[10]

Marriage within the same ancestral clan edit

Prior to 2005 marriage between two individuals of the same clan violated Korean incest taboos and was illegal while marriage between individuals of the same surname was socially prohibited.[11] As of the mid 1990s, 55% of South Korea's population shared one of five surnames: Kim, Park, Lee, Choi and Jung; and 40% of South Koreans claim membership in one of three major clans: the Gimhae Kim clan, Jeonju Yi clan, and the Miryang Park clan.[11] This codified prohibition was inspired by similar taboos in Tang China during Korea's late Joseon dynasty, which strove to realize Confucian ideals of governance and social order.[12][13]

Traditional wedding ceremonies edit

 
Korean wedding hollye.
 
Korean traditional wedding ceremony.
 
Korean Bridal Doll, c. 1800–1894, from the Oxford College Archives of Emory University
  • Pre-ceremony

Traditional Korean weddings are based around and centered on traditional Confucian values. Every aspect of the wedding, from the arrangement of the marriage to the ceremony and post celebrations, had important and elaborate steps to go along with them. In traditional Korean culture, like many traditional cultures, marriage between a man and a woman were decided by the bride and groom's elders. As in Confucian values family and the customs of a family is placed above all. Marriage is considered the most important passage in one's life. This is not only the union between two individuals but two families. Additionally, a marriage was a way, particularly among elite families, of developing and/or maintaining a social status. For these reasons, a significant amount of time was spent in preparation before finally performing the actual wedding ritual.

The first step is called the euihon (의혼; 議婚), or 'matchmaking', this is when both the bride and groom's families discuss the possibility of marriage. Various factors are taken into consideration such as: social status, personality, appearance, academic and/or agricultural (industrial) achievements, as well as material harmony as predicted by a fortuneteller. "In general the euihon is determined when the bridegroom-side sends a proposal letter of marriage and the bride-side sends a reply letter which permits this marriage."[14] Once the response from the bride is sent back to the groom, if agreed, the groom then sets up a date for the ceremony. This second step is called naljja seoljeong (날짜설정; 날짜設定), or 'date setting'. The groom's year, month, day, and hour (according to the lunar calendar), which is known as saju (사주; 四柱), is written on a paper and wrapped in bamboo branches and tied with red and blue thread. Lastly, the package is wrapped with a red and blue cloth and sent to the brides family. The birthdate of the groom is sent to a fortuneteller which sets the date based on the saju. That date is then sent back to the groom. The last step in pre-ceremonial traditions is called the napchae (납채; 納采), or exchanging valuables. Once the date is set, the groom then sends a box to the bride which is known as ham (; ). In the ham, there is typically three item: the honseo (혼서; 婚書), the chaedan (채단; 彩緞), and the honsu (혼수; 婚需). Of the three, the most important is the honseo, or marriage papers. This is given to the bride in dedication to wed only one husband. The wife is expected to keep this paper forever; upon death the papers are buried with the wife as well. The chaedan is a set of red and blue cloths which is used to make clothes. The red and blue is a representation of the Yin/Yang philosophy. Lastly, the honsu is a variety of other gifts given to the brides family. This can include household goods, jewelry and clothes.[15]

  • Ceremony

In ancient times, weddings (honrye; 婚禮) were held in the bride's yard or house. The groom traveled by horse to the bride's house and after the wedding ceremony took his wife in a palanquin (sedan chair) to his parents' house to live. The bride and groom wore formal court costumes for the wedding ceremony. Ordinary people were permitted to wear the luxurious clothes only on their wedding day. Hand lanterns are used for lighting the way from the groom's home to the bride's home on the night before the wedding. Traditionally, the groom's family would carry a wedding chest filled with gifts for the bride's family. Wedding geese are a symbol for a long and happy marriage. Cranes are a symbol of long life and may be represented on the woman's sash. Pairs of wooden Mandarin duck carvings called wedding ducks are often used in traditional wedding ceremonies because they represent peace, fidelity, and plentiful offspring.

  • Attires for bride and groom

The women's attire includes a jeogori (저고리; short jacket with long sleeves) with two long ribbons which are tied to form the otgoreum (옷고름).[16] A chima (치마), a full-length, high-waisted, wrap-around skirt is worn. Boat-shaped shoes made of silk, are worn with white cotton socks. The bride's attire might include a white sash with significant symbols or flowers. A headpiece or crown may also be worn. The norigae (노리개) is a hanbok (한복) decoration which has been worn by all classes of Korean women for centuries. It is tied to the skirt or the ribbon on the jacket. The knot on the top is called the Maedeup (매듭).[17] A jacket (jeogori, 저고리) and trousers and an overcoat are worn. The jacket has loose sleeves, the trousers are roomy and tied with straps at the ankles. A vest may be worn over the shirt. A black hat could be worn. The wedding costume for men is also known as gwanbok for the groom.[18]

Modern style wedding ceremonies edit

In larger cities, luxury hotels will have 'wedding halls' or ballrooms used specifically for wedding ceremonies. These rooms are decorated with a wedding motif and are rented to couples. Other wedding halls are independent facilities that can accommodate several different weddings at once. Today, many couples will initially have a more 'Westernized' ceremony with tuxedo attire and white wedding gown, then proceed with a smaller-scale, traditional Korean wedding after the main ceremony.

 
Samsung Wedding Hall in Seoul.
(video) A modern style wedding in South Korea (2007).

Practices before wedding ceremony edit

Wedding halls edit

Whereas a hotel ballroom or church must retain the flexibility necessary for other functions, independent wedding halls are able to focus strictly on weddings, and even cater to specific themes. Weddings in luxurious hotels had been prohibited by the government in 1980, became partly permitted in 1994, and became completely permitted in 1999.[19]

In busier wedding halls, formality (except for the couple and their families) is typically relaxed compared to Western standards. There may be a buffet hall on one floor in which guests from all of the different weddings come for a meal, either before or after the ceremony, which may take no longer than 20 minutes. The most common gift for a new couple is cash, and in the hall outside the wedding salon, representatives from the couple's families will collect and log donations.

The official ceremony in front of the guests is followed by Pyebaek, which is a ceremony among family members exclusively. The bride formally greets her new parents-in-law after the wedding ceremony. Additionally, the groom often gives a piggy back ride to his mother and then his bride, symbolizing his acceptance of his obligations to both his mother and wife.

Wedding feast and reception edit

The modern Korean wedding feast or reception, (kyeolhon piroyeon, 결혼피로연, 結婚披露宴) can be a mix of traditional and western cultures. At a traditional wedding feast a guest would expect to find bulgogi (불고기, marinated barbecue beef strips), galbi (갈비, marinated short ribs), a variety of kimchi (pickled cabbage with a variety of spices, with other ingredients such as radishes, seafood). There will be many accompanying bowls of sauces for dipping.

The meal is always accompanied with a vast quantity of white, sticky rice (밥) as well as gimbap (김밥), which is rice, egg, spinach, crab meat, pickled radish, and other ingredients rolled in seaweed and sliced into 1-inch rounds. Mandu (만두), dumplings filled with cabbage, carrot, meat, spinach, garlic, onion, chive, and clear noodle. These dumplings may be deep-fried or steamed. Soup will be offered, very frequently a kimchi type, or a rice cake soup (rice dumplings with chicken broth), or doenjang jigae, a fermented soybean paste soup.

Also popular are a light broth boiled from dried anchovies and vegetable soups rendered from dried spinach, sliced radish or dried seaweed. Steamed rice cakes (tteok) sometimes embellished with aromatic mugwort leaves or dusted with toasted soy, barley, or millet flour are presented as a tasty ritual food. A large variety of fruits, such as Korean pears, and pastries will be offered for dessert. A spoon and chopsticks are used for eating.

Current practice edit

As of 2020, according to Statistics Korea, the average age of first marriage is 33.2 for men and 30.8 for women.[20] In a large number of marriages, the male is older than the female. This age disparity is usually intentional. In 2013, the average cost of a wedding per person surpassed 50 million won.[21]

Marriages between Koreans and non-Koreans edit

2020 Transnational marriage in South Korea[22]
Korean women

+ Foreign husbands

Korean men

+ Foreign wives

Country Cases % Country Cases %
  United States 1,101 25.9   Vietnam 3,136 28.2
  China 942 22.2   China 2,524 22.7
  Canada 257 6   Thailand 1,735 15.6
  Japan 135 3.1   Japan 758 6.8
  United States 432 3.8
  Philippines 367 3.3
  Russia 275 2.4
Others 1,806 42.5 Others 1,873 16.8
Total 4,241 100 Total 11,100 100

The number of mixed marriages in Korea has increased due to a number of factors, among them the high number of Koreans studying abroad or traveling and a percentage of men living in rural areas where men outnumber women by a significant margin. As the world becomes more interconnected with the development of the internet, dating network sites or social network sites provide a medium for couples to interact. Since 2005, the number of international marriages in Korea has been on the decline. About 7% of couples who married in 2020 were international couples.[22]

Since there is lack of population of women in rural areas of South Korea, some men rely on marriage brokers and agencies to set up a marriage with a mail-order bride, mostly from southeast Asian countries like Vietnam and Thailand, as well as Uzbekistan and Nepal.[23][24] Marriages between South Korean men and foreign women are often arranged by marriage brokers or international religious groups. Men pay money to match-up and meet their spouse on the moment of their arrival to South Korea. There is mounting evidence to suggest that there is a statistically higher level of poverty and divorce in the Korean men married to foreign women cohort.[25][26][27] Currently divorces between Koreans and foreign spouses make up 10% of the total Korean divorce rate. Although these marriages can be successful, in some cases immigrant wives are misunderstood and isolated from their Korean husbands.[citation needed] About 97% of Korean women who married Vietnamese men in 2020 were remarried persons. They were Vietnamese women who married Korean men and divorced after acquiring nationality.[22]

As language and cultural differences become an issue many foreign brides do suffer from cultural differences which also affects the social integration of their children. The children of inter-racial marriage families called "Damunhwa" meaning multicultural family, face identity crisis and racial abuse as they try to assimilate into Korean society.[28] Since negative social perception of foreign marriage agencies and brides from these agencies exist as well as extreme conformity of one-race Koreans, these children suffer from lack of sense of belongingness and feel abused from isolation.[29]

As a means of reducing future problems, the government is setting up programs for men who are thinking of marrying a foreign woman through a collaboration between the Ministry of Gender Equality and the Ministry of Justice.[30] Also, the Ministry of Health, Welfare and Family Affairs is offering programs to help foreign wives to try to adjust to Korean society through Healthy Family Support Centers nationwide.[31]

Multicultural Family Support Centers in South Korea are operated and funded by the Ministry of Gender Equality and Family. The aim and purpose of these centers are to provide family education, counseling and cultural services for multicultural families, to support the early settlement of immigrant women in Korean society, and to help multicultural families enjoy stable family lives.[30] By collaborating with local cities and provinces, the Support Centers manage to provide basic but necessary services to local women such as Korean language and cultural education services, translation and interpretation services, childcare support services, child education support services, employment & venture support services.

Same-sex marriage edit

Despite the illegality of same-sex marriage in Korea, some gay couples are having non-legal private ceremonies. In 2023, a South Korean high court in Seoul ruled that the national health insurance agency of South Korea could not discriminate against same-sex couples.[32]

Movie director and producer Kim-Jho Gwang-soo had a private non-legal ceremony with Kim Seung-hwan, the head of the gay film distributor Rainbow Factory in September 2013.[33] Kim Jho held a public, non-legal wedding ceremony with film distributor David Kim Seung-hwan (his same-sex partner since 2004), in Seoul on September 7, 2013, the first of its kind in the country which does not recognize same-sex marriages.[34] In Seoul on November 10, 2019, Kim Gyu-Jin, the openly lesbian married her partner in public.[35] She wrote a book about her lesbian marriage experience in Korea called ''Unni, will you marry me?"(ko: 언니, 나랑 결혼할래요?)[36] On May 7, 2020, she and her partner filed a marriage registration with the Jongno District Office but they received a notice of non-repair.[37]

Types of marriage and courtship edit

Love marriage edit

"Love" marriage, as it is often called in South Korea, has become common in the past few decades. The expression refers to the marriage of two people who meet and fall in love without going through matchmakers or family-arranged meetings. Most often, the bride and groom first met on a blind date arranged by friends, on a group date, at their workplace, or while in college or university. South Korean families accept this type of marriage more readily than they used to.

Divorce edit

Historically, the divorce rate in South Korea was comparatively low before it began rapidly increasing in the mid-1990’s.[38] The divorce rate peaked at 3.5 divorces per 1,000 people within the population, which is noted to be a higher rate than several European countries.[38] The divorce rate in South Korea began to decline in the 2010’s, with a rate of 2.1-2.3 per 1,000.[38] The South Korean population has generally shown conservative attitudes towards divorce but has increasingly shown open attitudes alongside the rising divorce rate.[38] There is limited data available to determine the likelihood of remarriage after divorce in Korea.

Studies have shown that marriages between a Korean national and foreign spouse are much more likely to divorce. Approximately 19% of marriages between a Korean husband and a foreign wife were dissolved within 48 months, while approximately 13% of marriages between a Korean wife and foreign spouse dissolved within 48 months.[39] In comparison, only 6% of marriages between Korean nationals ended within 48 months.[39] Studies also suggest that marriages between a Korean Husband and a foreign wife may have the highest rate of divorce due to their lower quality of married life.[39] While less educated wives and husbands have an overall higher risk of divorce, foreign wives with a lower level of education face an extremely high risk of divorce in Korea.[39]

It has been noted that an increasing percentage of the Korean population end marriages at a later age. The average age of males and females who have filed for divorce rose to 50.1 and 46.8 in 2021.[40] Within the last decade, the average age for males divorcing rose 4.7 years and the average age for females rose 5.2 years.[40] The rate of divorce for other age groups declined in 2021, while those over sixty saw an increase, which is known as a “gray divorce”.[40] Couples that have separated after living 30 or more years together increased 7.5 percent in 2021, which is more than double compared to the previous decade”.[40]

Korean law may dictate which spouse may file for divorce. The Supreme Court of Korea may not grant a divorce if the petitioner is found responsible for the breakdown of a marriage.[41] If one spouse has committed an act of unchastity the other spouse may file for divorce.[41] There are exceptions that include any serious cause that may make it difficult to continue a marriage. The Supreme Court of Korea does not completely rule out divorce that is petitioned by the spouse that was found to be at fault.[41] Several other factors may be taken into consideration, such as the amount of time that has passed since separation and the feelings of the other spouse. A couple that mutually consents may be granted a divorce without court proceedings.[41] Korean attorneys expect that Korea will move to a no-fault divorce system in the future.[41] In 2015, the Constitutional Court decided that a law that made adultery a crime was unconstitutional.[41]

See also edit

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Further reading edit

  • Norimitsu Onishi, Divorce in South Korea Striking a New Attitude, The New York Times, 21 September 2003
  • Dennis Hart (2003). From Tradition to Consumption: Constructing a Capitalist Culture in South Korea. Seoul: Author. ISBN 978-89-88095-44-7.
  • Kendall, Laurel (1996). Getting Married in Korea: Of Gender, Morality, and Modernity. University of California Press. ISBN 978-0-520-20200-9.

External links edit

  • Norimitsu Onishi, Korean Men Use Brokers to Find Brides in Vietnam, The New York Times, 22 February 2007
  • Paul Wiseman, Asian men seek brides from poorer nations, USA Today, 27 February 2008

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Marriage in Korea mirrors many of the practices and expectations of marriages in other societies Modern practices are a combination of millennia old traditions and global influences Contents 1 Marriage in Pre Modern Korea 1 1 Marriage during the Goryeo period 918 1392 1 2 Marriage during the Joseon period 1392 1910 2 Marriage in North Korea 3 Marriage in South Korea 3 1 Eligibility and prohibitions 3 1 1 Marriage within the same ancestral clan 3 2 Traditional wedding ceremonies 3 3 Modern style wedding ceremonies 3 3 1 Practices before wedding ceremony 3 3 2 Wedding halls 3 3 3 Wedding feast and reception 3 4 Current practice 3 4 1 Marriages between Koreans and non Koreans 3 4 2 Same sex marriage 3 5 Types of marriage and courtship 3 5 1 Love marriage 3 5 2 Divorce 4 See also 5 References 5 1 Further reading 5 2 External linksMarriage in Pre Modern Korea editThe practice of matrilocality in Korea started in the Goguryeo period continued through the Goryeo period and ended in the early Joseon period 1 2 The Korean saying that when a man gets married he is entering jangga the house of his father in law stems from the Goguryeo period 3 Marriage during the Goryeo period 918 1392 edit Marriages during the Goryeo period were made primarily on the basis of political and economic considerations at least among the aristocracy citation needed King T aejo the founder of the Goryeo dynasty had 29 queens with which he built alliances with other aristocratic families However he married all but two of his daughters to their half brothers rather than using them to further build and affirm alliances A strategy continued by his successors 4 The practice of marrying royal daughters to half brothers ended under the insistence of the Mongol Empire and the Mongol and Korean royal families exchanged princesses 4 60 The kings of Goryeo married the imperial princesses of the Yuan dynasty Mongol Empire beginning with the marriage of King Chungnyeol to a daughter of Kublai Khan Cousin marriage was common in the early Goryeo period and non royal aristocrats married daughters to half brothers of different mothers also However such consanguineous marriages were gradually prohibited by banning such individuals children from attaining positions in the state bureaucracy and later came to labeled as adulterous but often persisted despite these sanctions 4 In contrast with the prevailing custom of patrilocal residence for married couples during the Joseon period and modern era Koreans of the Goryeo period it was not uncommon for a husband to matrilocally reside with his wife and her parents after marriage 4 Wedding ceremonies were held at the home of the bride s family and the average age of marriage was late teens with aristocrats marrying earlier than commoners 4 Weddings included gift exchange and a banquet which were meant to display the bride s family s wealth 4 There was no exchange of bride wealth or dowry 4 Marriages were often arranged by matchmakers 4 Goryeo society was highly stratified and kinship and status were determined bilaterally including the status and relatives of both mothers and fathers 4 Thus unlike during the Joseon period brides and husbands remained members of both their natal kin group and their affinal family after marriage Marriage ideally did not lead to the division of the household into smaller units and families preferred to retain their daughters after marriage with or without their husbands The prospect of an inheritance from in laws may have been a significant motivation for husbands to take up residence with their wives Kin 4 Inheritance was not determined by primogeniture and both sons and daughters received equal shares of inheritance from their parents 4 Although plural marriages were practiced wives and their offspring were not ranked and each had equal claim as heirs Marriages could easily be broken by husbands or wives 4 A woman who remarried too frequently could gain a negative reputation as promiscuous but Koreans of the Goryeo dynasty were not seen as prudish at least by Chinese standards of the time 4 There were no prohibitions against widows remarrying apart from having to observe a period of mourning 4 Offspring of a widower were retained by their mother and her family 4 Marriage during the Joseon period 1392 1910 edit Distinctions were introduced at the beginning of the Joseon dynasty in imitation of feudal imperial China which distinguished primary and secondary wives thereby clarifying the line of succession 4 Essential criteria for a primary wife was that she entered her husband s family as a virgin and that she could not be descended from low class ancestry in the case of marriages to noblemen who at the introduction of this rule were forced to choose which of their already multiple wives to designate as primary In imitation of the Ming criminal code primary wives could not be divorced for another and wives rankings could not be re ordered 4 The purpose of the reform ranking wives was to increase the clarity of distinctions of social status across society 4 From then on elites generally chose their first wives from fellow Yangban families while choosing secondary wives from the lower classes increasing the distinction between the Yangban aristocracy and commoners 4 During this period patrilocal residence after marriage became the norm through royally dictated changes to laws governing mourning obligations and inheritance rights 4 This shift was accomplished in part through increasingly strict restrictions on consanguineous marriages first outlawing marriage to matrilinial first cousins then extending to second cousins and ultimately expanding to prohibit marriage between individuals of the same surname by 1669 4 In 1427 another Chinese law was adopted that fixed the marriageable age of first marriage at 15 years of age for men and 14 years for women although if a parent was chronically ill or elderly over 50 the marriage age limit could be lowered to 12 4 The rationale for preventing early marriage was the belief that children married too young would not be sufficiently socialized to understand the duties of spouses and also thus incapable of properly socializing their own children 4 However this law was frequently violated 4 Aristocratic Yangban men tended to marry younger than commoners 4 Concern among legislators over the perceived lack of marriageable women led to the passage of laws that made families subject to punishment for failing to marry her off at an appropriate time 4 Marriage in North Korea editFollowing the establishment of communist regime in North Korea in the late 1940s the regulations on family matters between North and South started to diverge as the North Korean government quickly introduced a set of new laws and regulations affecting family law One of the impetus for new laws was a revolutionary rhetoric endorsing gender equality 5 however gender equality in North Korea remains a major issue with most independent observes concluding that North Korea is still far from achieving parity between genders 6 Engagement is not legally recognized Marriage is allowed at age 18 for boys and 17 for girls Unlike in South Korea there are no legal provisions regulating or banning marriage between persons in cases of consanguinity or other types of familial relations Divorce is allowed subject to administrative approval 5 As of the late 2010s marriage rates in North Korea have been reported as very high over 96 of adults aged 30 are married and divorce rates as very low less than 1 of North Korean population is classified as separated or divorced according to official data 7 Arranged marriage is still popular in North Korea 8 Marriage in South Korea editEligibility and prohibitions edit Marriage in South Korea is currently restricted to unions between individuals of the opposite sex as same sex marriages remain unrecognized 9 Males over 18 and females over 16 years old may marry with their parents or guardians consent Otherwise South Korea s age of consent to marriage is 20 in Korean age 19 in international age 20 years of age is also the age of consent for sexual activity 10 These age limits refer to one s lunar calendar based age which tend to be one or two years greater than one s solar age South Korea also recognizes what it calls De Facto Marriages equivalent to Common Law Marriages of couples who have not legally registered their marriage but who have either 1 made it publicly known that their relationship is akin to a marriage 2 had a public wedding ceremony or 3 have been cohabiting as though they are married 10 Marriage within the same ancestral clan edit Main article Article 809 of the Korean Civil Code Prior to 2005 marriage between two individuals of the same clan violated Korean incest taboos and was illegal while marriage between individuals of the same surname was socially prohibited 11 As of the mid 1990s 55 of South Korea s population shared one of five surnames Kim Park Lee Choi and Jung and 40 of South Koreans claim membership in one of three major clans the Gimhae Kim clan Jeonju Yi clan and the Miryang Park clan 11 This codified prohibition was inspired by similar taboos in Tang China during Korea s late Joseon dynasty which strove to realize Confucian ideals of governance and social order 12 13 Traditional wedding ceremonies edit nbsp Korean wedding hollye nbsp Korean traditional wedding ceremony nbsp Korean Bridal Doll c 1800 1894 from the Oxford College Archives of Emory UniversityPre ceremonyTraditional Korean weddings are based around and centered on traditional Confucian values Every aspect of the wedding from the arrangement of the marriage to the ceremony and post celebrations had important and elaborate steps to go along with them In traditional Korean culture like many traditional cultures marriage between a man and a woman were decided by the bride and groom s elders As in Confucian values family and the customs of a family is placed above all Marriage is considered the most important passage in one s life This is not only the union between two individuals but two families Additionally a marriage was a way particularly among elite families of developing and or maintaining a social status For these reasons a significant amount of time was spent in preparation before finally performing the actual wedding ritual The first step is called the euihon 의혼 議婚 or matchmaking this is when both the bride and groom s families discuss the possibility of marriage Various factors are taken into consideration such as social status personality appearance academic and or agricultural industrial achievements as well as material harmony as predicted by a fortuneteller In general the euihon is determined when the bridegroom side sends a proposal letter of marriage and the bride side sends a reply letter which permits this marriage 14 Once the response from the bride is sent back to the groom if agreed the groom then sets up a date for the ceremony This second step is called naljja seoljeong 날짜설정 날짜設定 or date setting The groom s year month day and hour according to the lunar calendar which is known as saju 사주 四柱 is written on a paper and wrapped in bamboo branches and tied with red and blue thread Lastly the package is wrapped with a red and blue cloth and sent to the brides family The birthdate of the groom is sent to a fortuneteller which sets the date based on the saju That date is then sent back to the groom The last step in pre ceremonial traditions is called the napchae 납채 納采 or exchanging valuables Once the date is set the groom then sends a box to the bride which is known as ham 함 函 In the ham there is typically three item the honseo 혼서 婚書 the chaedan 채단 彩緞 and the honsu 혼수 婚需 Of the three the most important is the honseo or marriage papers This is given to the bride in dedication to wed only one husband The wife is expected to keep this paper forever upon death the papers are buried with the wife as well The chaedan is a set of red and blue cloths which is used to make clothes The red and blue is a representation of the Yin Yang philosophy Lastly the honsu is a variety of other gifts given to the brides family This can include household goods jewelry and clothes 15 CeremonyIn ancient times weddings honrye 婚禮 were held in the bride s yard or house The groom traveled by horse to the bride s house and after the wedding ceremony took his wife in a palanquin sedan chair to his parents house to live The bride and groom wore formal court costumes for the wedding ceremony Ordinary people were permitted to wear the luxurious clothes only on their wedding day Hand lanterns are used for lighting the way from the groom s home to the bride s home on the night before the wedding Traditionally the groom s family would carry a wedding chest filled with gifts for the bride s family Wedding geese are a symbol for a long and happy marriage Cranes are a symbol of long life and may be represented on the woman s sash Pairs of wooden Mandarin duck carvings called wedding ducks are often used in traditional wedding ceremonies because they represent peace fidelity and plentiful offspring Attires for bride and groomThe women s attire includes a jeogori 저고리 short jacket with long sleeves with two long ribbons which are tied to form the otgoreum 옷고름 16 A chima 치마 a full length high waisted wrap around skirt is worn Boat shaped shoes made of silk are worn with white cotton socks The bride s attire might include a white sash with significant symbols or flowers A headpiece or crown may also be worn The norigae 노리개 is a hanbok 한복 decoration which has been worn by all classes of Korean women for centuries It is tied to the skirt or the ribbon on the jacket The knot on the top is called the Maedeup 매듭 17 A jacket jeogori 저고리 and trousers and an overcoat are worn The jacket has loose sleeves the trousers are roomy and tied with straps at the ankles A vest may be worn over the shirt A black hat could be worn The wedding costume for men is also known as gwanbok for the groom 18 Modern style wedding ceremonies edit In larger cities luxury hotels will have wedding halls or ballrooms used specifically for wedding ceremonies These rooms are decorated with a wedding motif and are rented to couples Other wedding halls are independent facilities that can accommodate several different weddings at once Today many couples will initially have a more Westernized ceremony with tuxedo attire and white wedding gown then proceed with a smaller scale traditional Korean wedding after the main ceremony nbsp Samsung Wedding Hall in Seoul source source source source source video A modern style wedding in South Korea 2007 Practices before wedding ceremony edit Wedding halls edit Whereas a hotel ballroom or church must retain the flexibility necessary for other functions independent wedding halls are able to focus strictly on weddings and even cater to specific themes Weddings in luxurious hotels had been prohibited by the government in 1980 became partly permitted in 1994 and became completely permitted in 1999 19 In busier wedding halls formality except for the couple and their families is typically relaxed compared to Western standards There may be a buffet hall on one floor in which guests from all of the different weddings come for a meal either before or after the ceremony which may take no longer than 20 minutes The most common gift for a new couple is cash and in the hall outside the wedding salon representatives from the couple s families will collect and log donations The official ceremony in front of the guests is followed by Pyebaek which is a ceremony among family members exclusively The bride formally greets her new parents in law after the wedding ceremony Additionally the groom often gives a piggy back ride to his mother and then his bride symbolizing his acceptance of his obligations to both his mother and wife Wedding feast and reception edit The modern Korean wedding feast or reception kyeolhon piroyeon 결혼피로연 結婚披露宴 can be a mix of traditional and western cultures At a traditional wedding feast a guest would expect to find bulgogi 불고기 marinated barbecue beef strips galbi 갈비 marinated short ribs a variety of kimchi pickled cabbage with a variety of spices with other ingredients such as radishes seafood There will be many accompanying bowls of sauces for dipping The meal is always accompanied with a vast quantity of white sticky rice 밥 as well as gimbap 김밥 which is rice egg spinach crab meat pickled radish and other ingredients rolled in seaweed and sliced into 1 inch rounds Mandu 만두 dumplings filled with cabbage carrot meat spinach garlic onion chive and clear noodle These dumplings may be deep fried or steamed Soup will be offered very frequently a kimchi type or a rice cake soup rice dumplings with chicken broth or doenjang jigae a fermented soybean paste soup Also popular are a light broth boiled from dried anchovies and vegetable soups rendered from dried spinach sliced radish or dried seaweed Steamed rice cakes tteok sometimes embellished with aromatic mugwort leaves or dusted with toasted soy barley or millet flour are presented as a tasty ritual food A large variety of fruits such as Korean pears and pastries will be offered for dessert A spoon and chopsticks are used for eating Current practice edit As of 2020 according to Statistics Korea the average age of first marriage is 33 2 for men and 30 8 for women 20 In a large number of marriages the male is older than the female This age disparity is usually intentional In 2013 the average cost of a wedding per person surpassed 50 million won 21 Marriages between Koreans and non Koreans edit 2020 Transnational marriage in South Korea 22 Korean women Foreign husbands Korean men Foreign wivesCountry Cases Country Cases nbsp United States 1 101 25 9 nbsp Vietnam 3 136 28 2 nbsp China 942 22 2 nbsp China 2 524 22 7 nbsp Canada 257 6 nbsp Thailand 1 735 15 6 nbsp Japan 135 3 1 nbsp Japan 758 6 8 nbsp United States 432 3 8 nbsp Philippines 367 3 3 nbsp Russia 275 2 4Others 1 806 42 5 Others 1 873 16 8Total 4 241 100 Total 11 100 100The number of mixed marriages in Korea has increased due to a number of factors among them the high number of Koreans studying abroad or traveling and a percentage of men living in rural areas where men outnumber women by a significant margin As the world becomes more interconnected with the development of the internet dating network sites or social network sites provide a medium for couples to interact Since 2005 the number of international marriages in Korea has been on the decline About 7 of couples who married in 2020 were international couples 22 Since there is lack of population of women in rural areas of South Korea some men rely on marriage brokers and agencies to set up a marriage with a mail order bride mostly from southeast Asian countries like Vietnam and Thailand as well as Uzbekistan and Nepal 23 24 Marriages between South Korean men and foreign women are often arranged by marriage brokers or international religious groups Men pay money to match up and meet their spouse on the moment of their arrival to South Korea There is mounting evidence to suggest that there is a statistically higher level of poverty and divorce in the Korean men married to foreign women cohort 25 26 27 Currently divorces between Koreans and foreign spouses make up 10 of the total Korean divorce rate Although these marriages can be successful in some cases immigrant wives are misunderstood and isolated from their Korean husbands citation needed About 97 of Korean women who married Vietnamese men in 2020 were remarried persons They were Vietnamese women who married Korean men and divorced after acquiring nationality 22 As language and cultural differences become an issue many foreign brides do suffer from cultural differences which also affects the social integration of their children The children of inter racial marriage families called Damunhwa meaning multicultural family face identity crisis and racial abuse as they try to assimilate into Korean society 28 Since negative social perception of foreign marriage agencies and brides from these agencies exist as well as extreme conformity of one race Koreans these children suffer from lack of sense of belongingness and feel abused from isolation 29 As a means of reducing future problems the government is setting up programs for men who are thinking of marrying a foreign woman through a collaboration between the Ministry of Gender Equality and the Ministry of Justice 30 Also the Ministry of Health Welfare and Family Affairs is offering programs to help foreign wives to try to adjust to Korean society through Healthy Family Support Centers nationwide 31 Multicultural Family Support Centers in South Korea are operated and funded by the Ministry of Gender Equality and Family The aim and purpose of these centers are to provide family education counseling and cultural services for multicultural families to support the early settlement of immigrant women in Korean society and to help multicultural families enjoy stable family lives 30 By collaborating with local cities and provinces the Support Centers manage to provide basic but necessary services to local women such as Korean language and cultural education services translation and interpretation services childcare support services child education support services employment amp venture support services Same sex marriage edit Main article Recognition of same sex unions in South Korea Despite the illegality of same sex marriage in Korea some gay couples are having non legal private ceremonies In 2023 a South Korean high court in Seoul ruled that the national health insurance agency of South Korea could not discriminate against same sex couples 32 Movie director and producer Kim Jho Gwang soo had a private non legal ceremony with Kim Seung hwan the head of the gay film distributor Rainbow Factory in September 2013 33 Kim Jho held a public non legal wedding ceremony with film distributor David Kim Seung hwan his same sex partner since 2004 in Seoul on September 7 2013 the first of its kind in the country which does not recognize same sex marriages 34 In Seoul on November 10 2019 Kim Gyu Jin the openly lesbian married her partner in public 35 She wrote a book about her lesbian marriage experience in Korea called Unni will you marry me ko 언니 나랑 결혼할래요 36 On May 7 2020 she and her partner filed a marriage registration with the Jongno District Office but they received a notice of non repair 37 Types of marriage and courtship edit Love marriage edit Love marriage as it is often called in South Korea has become common in the past few decades The expression refers to the marriage of two people who meet and fall in love without going through matchmakers or family arranged meetings Most often the bride and groom first met on a blind date arranged by friends on a group date at their workplace or while in college or university South Korean families accept this type of marriage more readily than they used to Divorce edit Historically the divorce rate in South Korea was comparatively low before it began rapidly increasing in the mid 1990 s 38 The divorce rate peaked at 3 5 divorces per 1 000 people within the population which is noted to be a higher rate than several European countries 38 The divorce rate in South Korea began to decline in the 2010 s with a rate of 2 1 2 3 per 1 000 38 The South Korean population has generally shown conservative attitudes towards divorce but has increasingly shown open attitudes alongside the rising divorce rate 38 There is limited data available to determine the likelihood of remarriage after divorce in Korea Studies have shown that marriages between a Korean national and foreign spouse are much more likely to divorce Approximately 19 of marriages between a Korean husband and a foreign wife were dissolved within 48 months while approximately 13 of marriages between a Korean wife and foreign spouse dissolved within 48 months 39 In comparison only 6 of marriages between Korean nationals ended within 48 months 39 Studies also suggest that marriages between a Korean Husband and a foreign wife may have the highest rate of divorce due to their lower quality of married life 39 While less educated wives and husbands have an overall higher risk of divorce foreign wives with a lower level of education face an extremely high risk of divorce in Korea 39 It has been noted that an increasing percentage of the Korean population end marriages at a later age The average age of males and females who have filed for divorce rose to 50 1 and 46 8 in 2021 40 Within the last decade the average age for males divorcing rose 4 7 years and the average age for females rose 5 2 years 40 The rate of divorce for other age groups declined in 2021 while those over sixty saw an increase which is known as a gray divorce 40 Couples that have separated after 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California Press ISBN 978 0 520 20200 9 External links edit Norimitsu Onishi Korean Men Use Brokers to Find Brides in Vietnam The New York Times 22 February 2007 Paul Wiseman Asian men seek brides from poorer nations USA Today 27 February 2008 Differences between South amp North Korean Wedding Retrieved from https en wikipedia org w index php title Marriage in Korea amp oldid 1183733571, wikipedia, wiki, book, books, library,

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