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Aromanticism

Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction.[3][4][5][6] The term "aromantic", colloquially shortened to "aro", refers to a person whose romantic orientation is aromanticism.[7][8]

Aromanticism
DefinitionLack of romantic attraction to others; low or absent desire for romantic activity
Abbreviationsaro
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Aromantic Pride
Flag nameAromantic Pride
MeaningGreen for aromantic spectrum, white for platonic love and friendship, grey and black for sexuality spectrum[1][2]

Definition, identity and relationships edit

 
Simplified diagram of the aromantic and asexual spectra

Aromanticism is defined as "having little or no romantic feeling towards others: experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction".[9] The term aromantic was added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2018.[10]

The opposite of aromanticism is alloromanticism, defined as a romantic orientation in which one experiences romantic love or romantic attraction to others.[11] Some individuals who fall on the aromantic spectrum of identities describe themselves as having experienced romantic love or romantic attraction at some point. Such aromantics may adopt labels for more specific identities on the aromantic spectrum, such as "grayromantic" (romantic attraction rarely experienced or only weakly experienced) or "demiromantic" (only experiencing romantic attraction after a strong emotional bond has been formed with the target).[8][12] As the experience of romantic attraction is subjective, some aromantic people may find it difficult to determine whether they experience romantic attraction.[13] As such, those who are aromantic may have trouble distinguishing platonic affection from romantic affection.[14][15][16]

Although some aromantic people may choose to enter a romantic relationship, they are less likely than alloromantic individuals to do so.[17] Aromantic people can also form non-romantic relationships of all types, as well as being able to enjoy sexual relationships.[17] They may also choose to have children, and studies indicate that aromantic individuals are no less likely to have children than alloromantic individuals.[17][18] This is because aromanticism is independent of sexuality or libido,[19] and while many aromantic people are asexual,[17][7] many are also allosexual.[16] Due to this, aromantic people who are not asexual can also identify with other sexual orientations, such as "aromantic bisexual" or "aromantic heterosexual".[20] This split between romantic and sexual orientation is commonly explained as the split attraction model, which states that romantic and sexual attraction are not strictly linked for all people. Aromantic asexual people are colloquially known as "aro-ace" or "aroace".[21]

Aromantic individuals are also able to experience platonic love and may have committed friendships, and some form intimate non-romantic partnerships called "queerplatonic relationships".[18] Of those who responded to the Aromantic Census 2020 14.6% had been in a non-romantic partnership.[22]

Some have argued that aromanticism is under-represented,[23] under-researched,[24][8][13] and frequently misunderstood.[25]

In society at large, aromantic people are often stigmatized and stereotyped as being afraid of intimacy, heartless, or deluded.[7][26] Amatonormativity, a neologism coined by philosopher and professor Elizabeth Brake, defined as "the widespread assumption that everyone is better off in an exclusive, romantic, long-term coupled relationship, and that everyone is seeking such a relationship", can be particularly damaging to aromantics. Amatonormativity is said to be connected to devaluing familial, platonic, and queerplatonic friendships/relationships damaging to aromantics.[27]

In the initialism LGBTQIA+, the A stands for aromanticism, alongside asexuality and agender.[28][29]

Sub-identities on the aromantic spectrum edit

As aromanticism exists as a spectrum, commonly referred to as the aromantic spectrum, there are varying sub-identities or microlabels that people on the aromantic spectrum identify with.[30][31][32]

  • Aromantic – someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction.
  • Grayromantic – someone who may be experiencing romantic attraction rarely, only under certain circumstances, or only weakly.
  • Demiromantic – someone who experiences romantic attraction but only after forming a close non-romantic bond with the person.
  • Aegoromantic – someone who does not feel romantic attraction, but enjoys the depiction of romantic love.
  • Lithromantic – someone who experiences romantic attraction, but does not want it to be reciprocated and may lose that attraction if it is reciprocated.
  • Cupioromantic – someone who does not experience romantic attraction, but desires a romantic relationship.[33]
  • Aroflux – someone who experiences their romantic attraction to be shifting on the aromantic spectrum.
  • Frayromantic – someone who only experiences romantic attraction towards people they do not know and may lose romantic attraction towards them if they form a deeper connection with them.
  • Quoiromantic – someone who is uncertain if they experience romantic attraction or cannot tell if their feelings are romantic, sexual or platonic in nature.
  • Placioromantic – someone who feels little to no desire to receive romantic acts but has interest in performing them to someone else.[34]
  • Apothiromantic – someone who does not experience romantic attraction and feels repulsed by romance or averse to romantic activities.[35]

Beyond the above listed commonly used terms that people on the aromantic spectrum may use to identify with, there are also a series of newer emerging terms that are not yet commonly used by the community.[31]

Community edit

One of the earliest uses of the modern term "aromantic" dates back to 2005.[36][37] The early online community around aromanticism formed on the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), an online community around asexuality, and social media platforms such as tumblr.

Since then a dedicated online community centered around aromanticism has formed online on Arocalypse.com as well as other social media platforms, such as reddit on the aromantic sub-reddit.

In order to gain wider acceptance and recognition, a volunteer formed organization, the Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy (AUREA), was formed to increase recognition of and education on aromanticism and help people on the aromantic spectrum gain wider acceptance by the general public.[38][39][40][41] AUREA is also the leading organizer of the annual Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week held in February.[42][43]

Another community organization, The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project (TAAAP), focuses on providing resources around both asexuality and aromanticism to the public.[44] They do so by creating and hosting workshops, developing educational materials, and engaging in outreach within the LGBTQIA+ community and general public. The organization has also written a book titled Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing your Asexual or Aromantic Identity that was published in April 2023.[45][46]

Symbols edit

The Aromantic Pride Flag was created in 2014 by Cameron Whimsy.[47][1] The main color, green, was chosen as it is the opposite of red, which is most commonly associated with romantic love. The two shades of green represent the aromantic spectrum, white represents platonic love and friendship, and grey and black represent the different parts of the sexuality spectrum.[2][48]

A white ring may be worn on one's left middle finger to indicate one's identity on the aromantic spectrum.[49] This was chosen as the opposite of the ace ring which is a black ring worn on the right hand.[50]

Another symbol often used by aromantic people is arrows or an arrow, as the word arrow is a homophone to the shortened word "aro" used by aromantic people to refer to themselves.[51]

Events edit

Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week edit

Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week (ASAW) is held annually during the first full week after Valentine's Day (beginning on Sunday). In 2024 it will be observed from February 18-25th.

The event was first recognized from November 10–17, 2014, and was subsequently moved to February in 2015 to be held the week after Valentine's Day.[42] It is an awareness period that was created to celebrate, raise awareness of, and bring acceptance to aromantic spectrum identities and the issues people on the aromantic spectrum face.[43] ASAW is led and organized by the Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy (AUREA) and members of the aromantic community.[43]

ASAW has been officially recognized by a handful of states in the United States including Washington State.[52][53]

Aromantic Visibility Day edit

The first annual Aromantic Visibility Day was held on 5 June 2023. It was organized by a call to action on Twitter to give visibility to people on the aromantic spectrum using the Hashtag #AromanticVisibilityDay and spread across social media including Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, reddit and various online forums and a cover interview by Hello! magazine with aromantic-asexual author Alice Oseman.[54]

Cultural representation edit

Aromanticism is rarely depicted in media, but is slowly gaining more widespread acceptance and representation.[55]

Books and literature edit

 
Michael Paramo was referred to as "one of the globe's leading aro academics" by ITV's Woo and published a non-fiction book on the subject in 2024.[56]

As aromanticism is slowly becoming more widely recognized and accepted, additional literature about it is being published. TAAAP created a list of book recommendations as part of the Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week 2022.[57]

Fiction edit

For a series of fictional books and comics depicting aromanticism, see fictional aromantic characters.

Non-fiction edit

A series of non-fiction books concerning aromanticism have been published since 2023:

Journals edit

The interdisciplinary journal known as AZE, created by Michael Paramo in 2016, showcases the works and experiences of aromantic, asexual and agender people.[61][62][63]

Online media edit

 
Popular YouTube animator Jaiden Dittfach published a video on coming out as aro-ace in 2022.[64]

The podcast Sounds Fake but Okay by Sarah Costello and Kayla Kaszyca focuses on aromanticism and asexuality and has been credited with helping increase public representation of the aspec (aromantic and asexual) community and has won the 2020 Discover Pods Award for best LGBTQ+ Culture Podcast.[65][66]

Popular YouTube animator Jaiden Dittfach published a video in March 2022, coming out as aromantic asexual, also known as aro-ace.[64][67][68]

Aromantic people edit

For a list of people that have come out as aromantic, see List of people on the aromantic spectrum.

Discrimination and cultural erasure edit

Discrimination, fear and prejudice against aromantic people, commonly referred to as "arophobia", or when directed at both aromantic and asexual (aspec) people, "aphobia" is prevalent in both the general public as well as within the LGBTQIA+ community.[69]

Elizabeth Brake coined the term amatonormativity in the book Minimizing Marriage, meaning "the pressure or desire for monogamy, romance, and/or marriage". As aromanticism is directly counter to many western societal expectations, aromantic people face continued pressure and prejudice to conform to the "social norms" and form permanent romantic relationships.[69][27]

Although aromantics and asexuals have existed for as long as humans have, the terminology and openness has only gone mainstream more recently.[70]

Aromantic people are often left out of discussions and representations, including within the LGBTQIA+ community itself.[70] This extends to some people's and media organizations misuse of the expanded LGBT acronym LGBTQIA+ acronym itself wherein some people mistakenly claim that A in LGBTQIA+ stands for ally. In actuality, the A in LGBTQIA+ represents aromanticism, asexuality and agender.[71][28][72][73]

This erasure extends into modern TV media, very prominently that of the character Jughead Jones, who is asexual and aromantic: in the 2017 Television show Riverdale, the writers chose to depict Jughead as a heterosexual despite pleas from both fans and Jughead actor Cole Sprouse to retain Jughead's asexual aromantic identity to allow the community to be represented.[74]

To counteract the stigma and discrimination against aromantic people, various community and health and wellness organizations have published articles and educational materials to educate the public.[7][75][76]

The English aromantic and asexual activist Yasmin Benoit called out that this erasure expands to official government offices, such as the Government Equalities Office not yet acknowledging aromanticism in their latest LGBT Survey and people having to label themselves under "other" instead.[77]

It is worth noting that sometimes this erasure of aromantic identities even happens within the aspec community itself, with people assuming that aromanticism and asexuality are the same thing, when in actuality they are actually different things and many aromantic people do not identify as asexual.[78][79]

In the Aromantic Census 2020, 82.43% of respondents reported not being taken seriously, being ignored, or being dismissed by others. 48.34% reported having experienced attempts or suggestions to "fix" or "cure" them. 70.51% of respondents indicated some impact of discrimination against their aromantic identity.[22]

Research edit

As the general term of aromanticism is still relatively young, studies on aromanticism in the scientific research field are still scarce and under-researched[8][17][80] and of the few studies that exist, many treat aromanticism as a sub-set of asexuality.[81]

In April 2023 two University of Toronto professors launched the Asexuality and Aromanticism Bibliography to better collect and track academic articles on asexuality and aromanticism.[82][83]

The concept that there is a distinction between romantic and sexual orientation has not been studied extensively yet,[84] but the diversity of attraction has been progressively recognized in newer studies.[85][86]

A 2022 study on concordance between romantic orientation and sexual attitudes found that while there is some concordance between romantic orientation and sexual orientation, the two were not a complete match, suggesting that the experience of split attraction between romantic and sexual orientation exists both in allosexual as well in asexual people. The authors also note that they were surprised that out of their sample population, as compared to asexual participants, only few allosexual people self-identified as aromantic and hypothesize that this may be due to the unfamiliarity with the concept and term.[86]

According to Debra Laino, an AASECT-certified clinical sexologist and relationship coach, one of the most common misconceptions around aromantic people is that they do not want to have sex. She explains that "aromantic people can still feel sexual attraction, but they might not identify with the way romance is often present in current media and culture."[40]

A research article from 2021 discusses zines and their role within the aromantic and asexual community to help people navigate their identity and the authors note that aromanticism is "too often explored as a tag-on to asexuality".[87]

Prevalence edit

The representation of aromantic people within the general population is not yet well understood. Of the population of asexual people, which is believed to be approximately 1% of the general population, about 26% also identified as aromantic.[17] There is however not much qualitative or quantitative research around how many allosexual people also identify as aromantic, thus making it hard to say how much of the general public identifies as aromantic.

One study of 414 American adults found that about 1% of participants indicated that they were not romantically attracted to either sex (i.e. aromantic). The study also found that about 10.6% of participants had discordant (different) romantic and sexual orientations.[85]

Calls for more research on aromanticism edit

Aromanticism as its own term originated within the asexual community online, but newer research is acknowledging that romantic and sexual orientation are not one and the same and attitudes towards recognition of this separation and difference are changing.[86] A contributing factor to this is that many people have difficulty distinguishing between romantic and sexual attraction as they intertwined for most people[84] and that between 19% and 28% of asexual individuals do also identify as aromantic.[88][89]

Calls for more research around aromanticism and asexuality are highlighted by a recent study centered on the thematic analysis of online communications within the aromantic and asexual community, which highlights that allonormativity is prevalent in the field of communication studies and needs to be combated in order to provide qualitative academic work around aromanticism and asexuality.[80]

In January 2024, PRIDEnet, a project of Stanford University School of Medicine, published a report as a result of a series of research community listening sessions with members of the aromantic community held in 2023 in recognition of the need for more affirming research related to the aromantic community to "address the lack of information surrounding the social, mental, and physical health of aromantic people and help us understand the challenges faced by and the resilience of the aromantic community".[90]

Community research edit

The Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy (AUREA) is supporting researchers interested in studying the field of aromanticism and hosts an archive of research on aromanticism. Some of the research listed is peer-reviewed, but the organization has also supported some community surveys.

A Census was performed by AUREA in 2020 to gather information of the aromantic community.[22] The census received 9,758 responses from aromantics around the world. Of the respondents, a majority identified as asexual, but about a third of respondents did not identify as asexual, highlighting that aromanticism is not strictly a subset of asexuality and should not simply be categorized as such. The Census Authors acknowledged that the respondent participant pool was overrepresented by people identifying as asexual as well as other geographic, demographic and linguistic skews as the census was only available in English and due to the predominantly online recruitment method. The organization is planning to repeat the census on a semi-annual basis, but has not yet released the 2022 census.

Another community survey was performed in 2021 within the aromantic community specifically targeting the allosexual aromantic community to highlight the existence of aromantic people that are not asexual. The survey had 647 responses; the majority of respondents identified as queer at 43% and only 8.8% as heterosexual.[91]

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External links edit

  • Aromantic-Spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy (AUREA) – Resources on Aromanticism
  • Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week (ASAW)
  • The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project (TAAAP)
  • Aromantic Resources by PFLAG
  • Arocalypse.com – An online forum centered on people on the aromantic spectrum

aromanticism, confused, with, asexuality, lack, sexual, attraction, aromaticity, chemical, property, album, album, romantic, orientation, characterized, experiencing, little, romantic, attraction, term, aromantic, colloquially, shortened, refers, person, whose. Not to be confused with asexuality the lack of sexual attraction or aromaticity the chemical property For the album see Aromanticism album Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction 3 4 5 6 The term aromantic colloquially shortened to aro refers to a person whose romantic orientation is aromanticism 7 8 AromanticismDefinitionLack of romantic attraction to others low or absent desire for romantic activityAbbreviationsaroFlagAromantic PrideFlag nameAromantic PrideMeaningGreen for aromantic spectrum white for platonic love and friendship grey and black for sexuality spectrum 1 2 Contents 1 Definition identity and relationships 1 1 Sub identities on the aromantic spectrum 2 Community 2 1 Symbols 2 2 Events 2 2 1 Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week 2 2 2 Aromantic Visibility Day 3 Cultural representation 3 1 Books and literature 3 1 1 Fiction 3 1 2 Non fiction 3 1 3 Journals 3 2 Online media 3 3 Aromantic people 4 Discrimination and cultural erasure 5 Research 5 1 Prevalence 5 2 Calls for more research on aromanticism 5 3 Community research 6 See also 7 References 8 External linksDefinition identity and relationships edit nbsp Simplified diagram of the aromantic and asexual spectra Aromanticism is defined as having little or no romantic feeling towards others experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction 9 The term aromantic was added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2018 10 The opposite of aromanticism is alloromanticism defined as a romantic orientation in which one experiences romantic love or romantic attraction to others 11 Some individuals who fall on the aromantic spectrum of identities describe themselves as having experienced romantic love or romantic attraction at some point Such aromantics may adopt labels for more specific identities on the aromantic spectrum such as grayromantic romantic attraction rarely experienced or only weakly experienced or demiromantic only experiencing romantic attraction after a strong emotional bond has been formed with the target 8 12 As the experience of romantic attraction is subjective some aromantic people may find it difficult to determine whether they experience romantic attraction 13 As such those who are aromantic may have trouble distinguishing platonic affection from romantic affection 14 15 16 Although some aromantic people may choose to enter a romantic relationship they are less likely than alloromantic individuals to do so 17 Aromantic people can also form non romantic relationships of all types as well as being able to enjoy sexual relationships 17 They may also choose to have children and studies indicate that aromantic individuals are no less likely to have children than alloromantic individuals 17 18 This is because aromanticism is independent of sexuality or libido 19 and while many aromantic people are asexual 17 7 many are also allosexual 16 Due to this aromantic people who are not asexual can also identify with other sexual orientations such as aromantic bisexual or aromantic heterosexual 20 This split between romantic and sexual orientation is commonly explained as the split attraction model which states that romantic and sexual attraction are not strictly linked for all people Aromantic asexual people are colloquially known as aro ace or aroace 21 Aromantic individuals are also able to experience platonic love and may have committed friendships and some form intimate non romantic partnerships called queerplatonic relationships 18 Of those who responded to the Aromantic Census 2020 14 6 had been in a non romantic partnership 22 Some have argued that aromanticism is under represented 23 under researched 24 8 13 and frequently misunderstood 25 In society at large aromantic people are often stigmatized and stereotyped as being afraid of intimacy heartless or deluded 7 26 Amatonormativity a neologism coined by philosopher and professor Elizabeth Brake defined as the widespread assumption that everyone is better off in an exclusive romantic long term coupled relationship and that everyone is seeking such a relationship can be particularly damaging to aromantics Amatonormativity is said to be connected to devaluing familial platonic and queerplatonic friendships relationships damaging to aromantics 27 In the initialism LGBTQIA the A stands for aromanticism alongside asexuality and agender 28 29 Sub identities on the aromantic spectrum edit As aromanticism exists as a spectrum commonly referred to as the aromantic spectrum there are varying sub identities or microlabels that people on the aromantic spectrum identify with 30 31 32 Aromantic someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction Grayromantic someone who may be experiencing romantic attraction rarely only under certain circumstances or only weakly Demiromantic someone who experiences romantic attraction but only after forming a close non romantic bond with the person Aegoromantic someone who does not feel romantic attraction but enjoys the depiction of romantic love Lithromantic someone who experiences romantic attraction but does not want it to be reciprocated and may lose that attraction if it is reciprocated Cupioromantic someone who does not experience romantic attraction but desires a romantic relationship 33 Aroflux someone who experiences their romantic attraction to be shifting on the aromantic spectrum Frayromantic someone who only experiences romantic attraction towards people they do not know and may lose romantic attraction towards them if they form a deeper connection with them Quoiromantic someone who is uncertain if they experience romantic attraction or cannot tell if their feelings are romantic sexual or platonic in nature Placioromantic someone who feels little to no desire to receive romantic acts but has interest in performing them to someone else 34 Apothiromantic someone who does not experience romantic attraction and feels repulsed by romance or averse to romantic activities 35 Beyond the above listed commonly used terms that people on the aromantic spectrum may use to identify with there are also a series of newer emerging terms that are not yet commonly used by the community 31 Community editOne of the earliest uses of the modern term aromantic dates back to 2005 36 37 The early online community around aromanticism formed on the Asexual Visibility and Education Network AVEN an online community around asexuality and social media platforms such as tumblr Since then a dedicated online community centered around aromanticism has formed online on Arocalypse com as well as other social media platforms such as reddit on the aromantic sub reddit In order to gain wider acceptance and recognition a volunteer formed organization the Aromantic spectrum Union for Recognition Education and Advocacy AUREA was formed to increase recognition of and education on aromanticism and help people on the aromantic spectrum gain wider acceptance by the general public 38 39 40 41 AUREA is also the leading organizer of the annual Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week held in February 42 43 Another community organization The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project TAAAP focuses on providing resources around both asexuality and aromanticism to the public 44 They do so by creating and hosting workshops developing educational materials and engaging in outreach within the LGBTQIA community and general public The organization has also written a book titled Ace and Aro Journeys A Guide to Embracing your Asexual or Aromantic Identity that was published in April 2023 45 46 Symbols edit See also LGBT symbols The Aromantic Pride Flag was created in 2014 by Cameron Whimsy 47 1 The main color green was chosen as it is the opposite of red which is most commonly associated with romantic love The two shades of green represent the aromantic spectrum white represents platonic love and friendship and grey and black represent the different parts of the sexuality spectrum 2 48 A white ring may be worn on one s left middle finger to indicate one s identity on the aromantic spectrum 49 This was chosen as the opposite of the ace ring which is a black ring worn on the right hand 50 Another symbol often used by aromantic people is arrows or an arrow as the word arrow is a homophone to the shortened word aro used by aromantic people to refer to themselves 51 nbsp The aromantic pride flag nbsp Aro ring a white ring most commonly worn on the left middle finger nbsp A pin depicting an arrow with the fletching representing the aromantic pride flag colors Events edit Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week edit Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week ASAW is held annually during the first full week after Valentine s Day beginning on Sunday In 2024 it will be observed from February 18 25th The event was first recognized from November 10 17 2014 and was subsequently moved to February in 2015 to be held the week after Valentine s Day 42 It is an awareness period that was created to celebrate raise awareness of and bring acceptance to aromantic spectrum identities and the issues people on the aromantic spectrum face 43 ASAW is led and organized by the Aromantic spectrum Union for Recognition Education and Advocacy AUREA and members of the aromantic community 43 ASAW has been officially recognized by a handful of states in the United States including Washington State 52 53 Aromantic Visibility Day edit The first annual Aromantic Visibility Day was held on 5 June 2023 It was organized by a call to action on Twitter to give visibility to people on the aromantic spectrum using the Hashtag AromanticVisibilityDay and spread across social media including Twitter Instagram Tumblr reddit and various online forums and a cover interview by Hello magazine with aromantic asexual author Alice Oseman 54 Cultural representation editAromanticism is rarely depicted in media but is slowly gaining more widespread acceptance and representation 55 Books and literature edit nbsp Michael Paramo was referred to as one of the globe s leading aro academics by ITV s Woo and published a non fiction book on the subject in 2024 56 As aromanticism is slowly becoming more widely recognized and accepted additional literature about it is being published TAAAP created a list of book recommendations as part of the Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week 2022 57 Fiction edit For a series of fictional books and comics depicting aromanticism see fictional aromantic characters Non fiction edit A series of non fiction books concerning aromanticism have been published since 2023 Sounds Fake But Okay An Asexual and Aromantic Perspective on Love Relationships Sex and Pretty Much Anything Else February 2023 58 46 Ace and Aro Journeys A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity April 2023 45 46 Hopeless Aromantic An Affirmative Guide to Aromanticism July 2023 59 Ending the Pursuit Asexuality Aromanticism and Agender Identity February 2024 60 Journals edit The interdisciplinary journal known as AZE created by Michael Paramo in 2016 showcases the works and experiences of aromantic asexual and agender people 61 62 63 Online media edit nbsp Popular YouTube animator Jaiden Dittfach published a video on coming out as aro ace in 2022 64 The podcast Sounds Fake but Okay by Sarah Costello and Kayla Kaszyca focuses on aromanticism and asexuality and has been credited with helping increase public representation of the aspec aromantic and asexual community and has won the 2020 Discover Pods Award for best LGBTQ Culture Podcast 65 66 Popular YouTube animator Jaiden Dittfach published a video in March 2022 coming out as aromantic asexual also known as aro ace 64 67 68 Aromantic people edit For a list of people that have come out as aromantic see List of people on the aromantic spectrum Discrimination and cultural erasure editDiscrimination fear and prejudice against aromantic people commonly referred to as arophobia or when directed at both aromantic and asexual aspec people aphobia is prevalent in both the general public as well as within the LGBTQIA community 69 Elizabeth Brake coined the term amatonormativity in the book Minimizing Marriage meaning the pressure or desire for monogamy romance and or marriage As aromanticism is directly counter to many western societal expectations aromantic people face continued pressure and prejudice to conform to the social norms and form permanent romantic relationships 69 27 Although aromantics and asexuals have existed for as long as humans have the terminology and openness has only gone mainstream more recently 70 Aromantic people are often left out of discussions and representations including within the LGBTQIA community itself 70 This extends to some people s and media organizations misuse of the expanded LGBT acronym LGBTQIA acronym itself wherein some people mistakenly claim that A in LGBTQIA stands for ally In actuality the A in LGBTQIA represents aromanticism asexuality and agender 71 28 72 73 This erasure extends into modern TV media very prominently that of the character Jughead Jones who is asexual and aromantic in the 2017 Television show Riverdale the writers chose to depict Jughead as a heterosexual despite pleas from both fans and Jughead actor Cole Sprouse to retain Jughead s asexual aromantic identity to allow the community to be represented 74 To counteract the stigma and discrimination against aromantic people various community and health and wellness organizations have published articles and educational materials to educate the public 7 75 76 The English aromantic and asexual activist Yasmin Benoit called out that this erasure expands to official government offices such as the Government Equalities Office not yet acknowledging aromanticism in their latest LGBT Survey and people having to label themselves under other instead 77 It is worth noting that sometimes this erasure of aromantic identities even happens within the aspec community itself with people assuming that aromanticism and asexuality are the same thing when in actuality they are actually different things and many aromantic people do not identify as asexual 78 79 In the Aromantic Census 2020 82 43 of respondents reported not being taken seriously being ignored or being dismissed by others 48 34 reported having experienced attempts or suggestions to fix or cure them 70 51 of respondents indicated some impact of discrimination against their aromantic identity 22 Research editAs the general term of aromanticism is still relatively young studies on aromanticism in the scientific research field are still scarce and under researched 8 17 80 and of the few studies that exist many treat aromanticism as a sub set of asexuality 81 In April 2023 two University of Toronto professors launched the Asexuality and Aromanticism Bibliography to better collect and track academic articles on asexuality and aromanticism 82 83 The concept that there is a distinction between romantic and sexual orientation has not been studied extensively yet 84 but the diversity of attraction has been progressively recognized in newer studies 85 86 A 2022 study on concordance between romantic orientation and sexual attitudes found that while there is some concordance between romantic orientation and sexual orientation the two were not a complete match suggesting that the experience of split attraction between romantic and sexual orientation exists both in allosexual as well in asexual people The authors also note that they were surprised that out of their sample population as compared to asexual participants only few allosexual people self identified as aromantic and hypothesize that this may be due to the unfamiliarity with the concept and term 86 According to Debra Laino an AASECT certified clinical sexologist and relationship coach one of the most common misconceptions around aromantic people is that they do not want to have sex She explains that aromantic people can still feel sexual attraction but they might not identify with the way romance is often present in current media and culture 40 A research article from 2021 discusses zines and their role within the aromantic and asexual community to help people navigate their identity and the authors note that aromanticism is too often explored as a tag on to asexuality 87 Prevalence edit The representation of aromantic people within the general population is not yet well understood Of the population of asexual people which is believed to be approximately 1 of the general population about 26 also identified as aromantic 17 There is however not much qualitative or quantitative research around how many allosexual people also identify as aromantic thus making it hard to say how much of the general public identifies as aromantic One study of 414 American adults found that about 1 of participants indicated that they were not romantically attracted to either sex i e aromantic The study also found that about 10 6 of participants had discordant different romantic and sexual orientations 85 Calls for more research on aromanticism edit Aromanticism as its own term originated within the asexual community online but newer research is acknowledging that romantic and sexual orientation are not one and the same and attitudes towards recognition of this separation and difference are changing 86 A contributing factor to this is that many people have difficulty distinguishing between romantic and sexual attraction as they intertwined for most people 84 and that between 19 and 28 of asexual individuals do also identify as aromantic 88 89 Calls for more research around aromanticism and asexuality are highlighted by a recent study centered on the thematic analysis of online communications within the aromantic and asexual community which highlights that allonormativity is prevalent in the field of communication studies and needs to be combated in order to provide qualitative academic work around aromanticism and asexuality 80 In January 2024 PRIDEnet a project of Stanford University School of Medicine published a report as a result of a series of research community listening sessions with members of the aromantic community held in 2023 in recognition of the need for more affirming research related to the aromantic community to address the lack of information surrounding the social mental and physical health of aromantic people and help us understand the challenges faced by and the resilience of the aromantic community 90 Community research edit The Aromantic spectrum Union for Recognition Education and Advocacy AUREA is supporting researchers interested in studying the field of aromanticism and hosts an archive of research on aromanticism Some of the research listed is peer reviewed but the organization has also supported some community surveys A Census was performed by AUREA in 2020 to gather information of the aromantic community 22 The census received 9 758 responses from aromantics around the world Of the respondents a 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