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The Kid (book)

January 01, 1970

The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant is a non-fiction book by Dan Savage. It was first published by Dutton in 1999. The book recounts the author's experiences during the process of adopting a child with his partner, Terry. Savage details for the reader his emotional states at various times during the adoption period and how it affected his life.

The Kid
Cover
AuthorDan Savage
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish
SubjectParenting
PublisherDutton
Publication date
1999
Media typePrint
Pages246
ISBN978-0-525-94525-3
OCLC41445757
Preceded bySavage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist (1998) 
Followed bySkipping Towards Gomorrah: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Pursuit of Happiness in America (2002) 

The Kid is the recipient of a PEN West Award.[1][2][3] Robin Williams' production company purchased the options to develop the book for television in 2000.[4][5] The book was adapted into a musical in 2010 by librettist Michael Zam, with music composed by Andy Monroe, and lyrics by Jack Lechner.[6] Christopher Sieber starred in the lead role as Dan.[6] It was performed Off-Broadway in Theatre Row, New York City, and directed by Scott Elliott.[6][7] The play was the recipient of the BMI Foundation Jerry Bock Award for Excellence in Musical Theatre in 2009.[8]

Contents edit

 
Dan Savage (2005)

The Kid delves into the machinations involved in the process of adopting an infant boy, through the experiences of the author and his boyfriend.[9] Savage describes the psychological roller-coaster experience of deciding to go through with the process, such as worrying about which items to purchase to support raising an infant, moments where he was nervous about how it would impact his sex life, and what his straight and gay friends would think.[10] Savage comments that an LGBT activist thought those who adopt children were ideal candidates if they were "men in their forties, together at least eight years, monogamous, professional, irreproachable, and unassailable."[11] He expresses "a complex sense of moral obligation" in writing the narrative.[9]

Terry, Savage's boyfriend at the time for two years, initially helped him look into the option of seeking out lesbian acquaintances to assist them in becoming biological parents.[10] Savage writes, "Terry and I would be giving up certain things that, for better or worse, define what it means to be gay."[12] Subsequently, they decided to go through the process of adoption.[10] Terry and Savage were connected with Melissa and communicated with her during her pregnancy.[10] Savage discusses his anger at his grandmother over her homophobia, his experiences in the bedroom including bondage and other preferences, and his decision to become a father.[10] He notes that an influential point in the process was viewing the distress from the baby's mother when she separated from her child.[13] The author writes, "We're meant to have the baby we wind up getting, and no other."[14] Savage describes the success at completing the adoption procedures as a form of "social victory."[15]

Publication history edit

The Kid was first published by Dutton in 1999 as a hardcover edition.[16][17] Plume publishing company released an e-book in 1999.[18] A subsequent edition was published in 2000 in London by Fusion,[19][20] and in the United States by Penguin Putnam Inc.[21] A paperback edition was published by Plume in 2000.[22] The book was published in Italian in 2002 by Tascabili Degli Editori.[23]

Reception edit

The Kid received a PEN Center USA West Award.[2] It was recognized with the award in 2000, in the category of Excellence in Creative Nonfiction.[1][3] Writing in the journal Feminist Economics, June Lapidus called The Kid a "warm, funny, and insightful book".[24] Author Andrew R. Gottlieb wrote in the book Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers: Life Curves, "Fast and funny, incisive and insightful, Dan Savage's (1999) The Kid is an exploration of one gay man's experience and one gay couple's experience confronting the open adoption bureaucracy. With razor-sharp scrutiny, Savage spares no one, including himself."[25] A review for The News Tribune by Linda Dahlstrom commented that the book was quite moving, "In fact, that's one of the surprises of the book—that in the end, above everything else, it's a touching, funny story about an American family in the '90s."[26] Gwen Florio of The Philadelphia Inquirer described the section of the book where the child's mother gives the baby to his new parents as "the most wrenching scene."[27] Entertainment Weekly characterized the work as "one of the best books published in 1999", and called the author's writing, "as moving as it is entertaining".[28]

A review in Salon described the book as "a very moving memoir."[29] Reviewer Daryl Lindsey commented, "Despite the expediency of their experience, the book is full of twists and turns, each subjected to Savage's snide and penetrating wit. And in an uncharacteristically wide-eyed mood, Savage provides a lovely tale about the thrill of anticipating a baby—even when it isn't yours (by birth)."[29] Publishers Weekly reviewed the work and commented, "Employing the blunt tone of his columns, Savage humorously and honestly discusses his sexual practices (including bondage and fantasies involving actor Matt Damon), his ambivalence about being a parent and his rage at his homophobic grandmother. His forthrightness is brave and daring in the face of social opposition to gay parenting."[10] The review concluded, "However, though Savage's chatty, mercilessly satiric style is effective in his columns and may be intended here to balance the optimistic underpinnings of his journey into parenthood, in this sustained narrative it wears a bit thin."[10]

Adaptations edit

Television edit

In 2000, the production company of Robin Williams, Blue Wolf Productions, purchased the options to develop the book for television.[4][5]

Theatre edit

Further information: The Kid (musical)

In 2010, The Kid was produced as a musical Off-Broadway.[7] The play was developed by librettist Michael Zam.[6] Music for the play was composed by Andy Monroe, with lyrics by Jack Lechner.[6] Savage was portrayed by Christopher Sieber.[6] It was performed in Theatre Row, New York City, from The New Group,[30] with director Scott Elliott.[6][7] The Kid was the recipient of the BMI Foundation Jerry Bock Award for Excellence in Musical Theatre in 2009.[8]

The New York Times gave the musical a favorable review: "Vibrators, leather bars and good old-fashioned sodomy have never looked more wholesome than they do in The Kid."[31] The Star-Ledger reviewer commented, "It's a really funny show. And rather touching, as well. A lot of the jokes are based on the would-be adoptive couple being two men. But the sharp humor is balanced with a sweetness and humanity that makes their emotional experience relatable for everyone."[32] The New York Post gave the musical a rating of three and a half out of four stars, with reviewer Elisabeth Vincentelli writing, "The administrative roller coaster provides a gold mine of amusing material, but this tender, funny show is more about the emotional journey of becoming a parent for the first time."[33] A review in the New York Daily News commented, "The show is well-meaning but surprisingly bland and corny."[7] Jesse Oxfeld wrote for The New York Observer, "Michael Zam's script is often very funny and can occasionally be moving ... But at two and a half hours (including intermission), with 22 musical numbers and that mess of characters, there is a lack of focus".[34]

See also edit

References edit

  1. ^ a b Rapp, Linda (2006). . glbtq. Chicago, Illinois: glbtq, Inc. Archived from the original on June 4, 2011. Retrieved May 31, 2011.
  2. ^ a b Pories, Kathy (2004). The "M" Word: Writers on Same-Sex Marriage. Algonquin Books. p. 191. ISBN 978-1-56512-454-7.
  3. ^ a b "Columnist Dan Savage to read at Lucy's Books". The Daily Astorian. Astoria, Oregon. October 31, 2002.
  4. ^ a b "Daddy's TV Roommates: Gay Parenting". The Advocate. March 20, 2000. p. 24.
  5. ^ a b McFadden, Kay (February 25, 2000). "Dan Savage's book about becoming a parent is optioned for TV". The Seattle Times. Retrieved May 27, 2011.
  6. ^ a b c d e f g Healy, Patricia (May 7, 2010). "A Gay Adoption Becomes a Musical". The New York Times. p. C1. Retrieved May 27, 2011.
  7. ^ a b c d Dziemianowicz, Joe (May 11, 2010). "Dan Savage's 'The Kid' musical is boring baby that needs to grow up". New York Daily News. Retrieved May 27, 2011.
  8. ^ a b "Musical based on Dan Savage memoir opens Monday". Seattle Post-Intelligencer. May 9, 2010. p. Web Edition; Big Blog.
  9. ^ a b Smith, Sidonie; Julia Watson (2010). Reading Autobiography: A Guide for Interpreting Life Narratives. University Of Minnesota Press. pp. 152, 270–271. ISBN 978-0-8166-6986-8.
  10. ^ a b c d e f g The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant; Book Review. Reed Business Information, Inc. September 1999. {{cite book}}: |work= ignored (help)
  11. ^ Miya-Jervis, Lisa; Andi Zeisler (2006). BITCHfest: Ten Years of Cultural Criticism from the Pages of Bitch Magazine. Farrar, Straus and Giroux. p. 233. ISBN 0-374-11343-2.
  12. ^ Stacey, Judith (February 2006). "Gay parenthood and the decline of paternity as we knew it". Sexualities. 9 (27–55): 27–55. doi:10.1177/1363460706060687. S2CID 143934572.
  13. ^ Askeland, Lori (2005). Children and Youth in Adoption, Orphanages, and Foster Care: A Historical Handbook and Guide. Greenwood. p. 51. ISBN 978-0-313-33183-1.
  14. ^ Dail, Laura (2004). Truly Yours: Thoughts on the Miracle of Adoption. Andrews McMeel Publishing. p. 52. ISBN 978-0-7407-4172-2.
  15. ^ Shonkwiler, Alison (2008). "THE SELFISH-ENOUGH FATHER: Gay Adoption and the Late-Capitalist Family". GLQ: A Journal of Lesbian and Gay Studies. 14 (4). Duke University Press: 537–567. doi:10.1215/10642684-2008-004. S2CID 146792095.
  16. ^ Savage, Dan (1999). The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant. Dutton. ISBN 978-0-525-94525-3.
  17. ^ OCLC 41445757
  18. ^ OCLC 57538033
  19. ^ Savage, Dan (2000). The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant. Fusion Press. ISBN 1-901250-70-9.
  20. ^ OCLC 59569701
  21. ^ Savage, Dan (2000). The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant. Penguin Putnam Inc. ISBN 978-0-452-28176-9.
  22. ^ Savage, Dan (2000). The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant. Plume. ISBN 978-0-452-28176-9.
  23. ^ Savage, Dan (2002). Due Uomini E Una Culla (in Italian). Tascabili Degli Editori. ISBN 88-502-0097-8.
  24. ^ Lapidus, June (2004). "All the Lesbian Mothers are Coupled, all the Single Mothers are Straight, and all of us are Tired: Reflections on being a Single Lesbian Mom". Feminist Economics. 10 (2): 227–236. doi:10.1080/1354570042000217784. S2CID 154939284.
  25. ^ Gottlieb, Andrew R. (2003). Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers: Life Curves. Routledge. p. 6. ISBN 1-56023-179-3.
  26. ^ Dahlstrom, Linda (November 3, 1999). "' The Kid ' tells tale of gay adoption - Seattle writer tells story of his unusual journey into fatherhood". The News Tribune. p. SL3.
  27. ^ Florio, Gwen (November 29, 1999). "'The Kid' puts crimp in sex life of columnist now that he's a parent, a gay dispenser of sex advice has less experience to draw from". The Philadelphia Inquirer. p. F05.
  28. ^ Wineke, William R. (June 15, 2000). "Dan Savage". Wisconsin State Journal. Madison, Wisconsin. p. 9.
  29. ^ a b Lindsey, Daryl (October 1, 1999). "From "Hey Faggot" to "Hey Daddy"". Salon. salon.com. Retrieved May 26, 2011.
  30. ^ Itzkoff, Dave (May 16, 2009). "Arts, briefly - Broderick and Lonergan in With New Group". The New York Times. p. C2. Retrieved May 31, 2011.
  31. ^ "Vibrators, leather bars ... have never looked more wholesome". Seattle Post-Intelligencer. May 11, 2010. p. Web Edition; Big Blog.
  32. ^ Feldberg, Robert (May 12, 2010). "'The Kid' is all right Gay couple try to adopt in charming new musical". The Star-Ledger. p. 035.
  33. ^ Vincentelli, Elisabeth (May 11, 2010). "Tender quest for paternal sunshine". New York Post. p. 041.
  34. ^ Oxfeld, Jesse (May 12, 2010). "Remember Shmomosexuals?". The New York Observer.

Further reading edit

  • Hicks, Stephen; Janet McDermott (1998). Lesbian and Gay Fostering and Adoption: Extraordinary Yet Ordinary. Jessica Kingsley Pub. ISBN 978-1-85302-600-3.
  • Mallon, Gerald P. (2006). Lesbian and Gay Foster and Adoptive Parents: Recruiting, Assessing, and Supporting an Untapped Resource for Children and Youth. CWLA Press; Child Welfare League of America. ISBN 978-1-58760-104-0.
  • Garner, Abigail (2005). Families Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is. Harper. ISBN 978-0-06-052758-7.

External links edit

  • Dan Savage’s The Kid and 5 Other Gay Memoirs That Went Big, Queerty
  • The Kid: Book Review, Narth, Reviewed By: James E. Phelan, LCSW

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The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant is a non fiction book by Dan Savage It was first published by Dutton in 1999 The book recounts the author s experiences during the process of adopting a child with his partner Terry Savage details for the reader his emotional states at various times during the adoption period and how it affected his life The KidCoverAuthorDan SavageCountryUnited StatesLanguageEnglishSubjectParentingPublisherDuttonPublication date1999Media typePrintPages246ISBN978 0 525 94525 3OCLC41445757Preceded bySavage Love Straight Answers from America s Most Popular Sex Columnist 1998 Followed bySkipping Towards Gomorrah The Seven Deadly Sins and the Pursuit of Happiness in America 2002 The Kid is the recipient of a PEN West Award 1 2 3 Robin Williams production company purchased the options to develop the book for television in 2000 4 5 The book was adapted into a musical in 2010 by librettist Michael Zam with music composed by Andy Monroe and lyrics by Jack Lechner 6 Christopher Sieber starred in the lead role as Dan 6 It was performed Off Broadway in Theatre Row New York City and directed by Scott Elliott 6 7 The play was the recipient of the BMI Foundation Jerry Bock Award for Excellence in Musical Theatre in 2009 8 Contents 1 Contents 2 Publication history 3 Reception 4 Adaptations 4 1 Television 4 2 Theatre 5 See also 6 References 7 Further reading 8 External linksContents edit nbsp Dan Savage 2005 The Kid delves into the machinations involved in the process of adopting an infant boy through the experiences of the author and his boyfriend 9 Savage describes the psychological roller coaster experience of deciding to go through with the process such as worrying about which items to purchase to support raising an infant moments where he was nervous about how it would impact his sex life and what his straight and gay friends would think 10 Savage comments that an LGBT activist thought those who adopt children were ideal candidates if they were men in their forties together at least eight years monogamous professional irreproachable and unassailable 11 He expresses a complex sense of moral obligation in writing the narrative 9 Terry Savage s boyfriend at the time for two years initially helped him look into the option of seeking out lesbian acquaintances to assist them in becoming biological parents 10 Savage writes Terry and I would be giving up certain things that for better or worse define what it means to be gay 12 Subsequently they decided to go through the process of adoption 10 Terry and Savage were connected with Melissa and communicated with her during her pregnancy 10 Savage discusses his anger at his grandmother over her homophobia his experiences in the bedroom including bondage and other preferences and his decision to become a father 10 He notes that an influential point in the process was viewing the distress from the baby s mother when she separated from her child 13 The author writes We re meant to have the baby we wind up getting and no other 14 Savage describes the success at completing the adoption procedures as a form of social victory 15 Publication history editThe Kid was first published by Dutton in 1999 as a hardcover edition 16 17 Plume publishing company released an e book in 1999 18 A subsequent edition was published in 2000 in London by Fusion 19 20 and in the United States by Penguin Putnam Inc 21 A paperback edition was published by Plume in 2000 22 The book was published in Italian in 2002 by Tascabili Degli Editori 23 Reception editThe Kid received a PEN Center USA West Award 2 It was recognized with the award in 2000 in the category of Excellence in Creative Nonfiction 1 3 Writing in the journal Feminist Economics June Lapidus called The Kid a warm funny and insightful book 24 Author Andrew R Gottlieb wrote in the book Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers Life Curves Fast and funny incisive and insightful Dan Savage s 1999 The Kid is an exploration of one gay man s experience and one gay couple s experience confronting the open adoption bureaucracy With razor sharp scrutiny Savage spares no one including himself 25 A review for The News Tribune by Linda Dahlstrom commented that the book was quite moving In fact that s one of the surprises of the book that in the end above everything else it s a touching funny story about an American family in the 90s 26 Gwen Florio of The Philadelphia Inquirer described the section of the book where the child s mother gives the baby to his new parents as the most wrenching scene 27 Entertainment Weekly characterized the work as one of the best books published in 1999 and called the author s writing as moving as it is entertaining 28 A review in Salon described the book as a very moving memoir 29 Reviewer Daryl Lindsey commented Despite the expediency of their experience the book is full of twists and turns each subjected to Savage s snide and penetrating wit And in an uncharacteristically wide eyed mood Savage provides a lovely tale about the thrill of anticipating a baby even when it isn t yours by birth 29 Publishers Weekly reviewed the work and commented Employing the blunt tone of his columns Savage humorously and honestly discusses his sexual practices including bondage and fantasies involving actor Matt Damon his ambivalence about being a parent and his rage at his homophobic grandmother His forthrightness is brave and daring in the face of social opposition to gay parenting 10 The review concluded However though Savage s chatty mercilessly satiric style is effective in his columns and may be intended here to balance the optimistic underpinnings of his journey into parenthood in this sustained narrative it wears a bit thin 10 Adaptations editTelevision edit In 2000 the production company of Robin Williams Blue Wolf Productions purchased the options to develop the book for television 4 5 Theatre edit Further information The Kid musical In 2010 The Kid was produced as a musical Off Broadway 7 The play was developed by librettist Michael Zam 6 Music for the play was composed by Andy Monroe with lyrics by Jack Lechner 6 Savage was portrayed by Christopher Sieber 6 It was performed in Theatre Row New York City from The New Group 30 with director Scott Elliott 6 7 The Kid was the recipient of the BMI Foundation Jerry Bock Award for Excellence in Musical Theatre in 2009 8 The New York Times gave the musical a favorable review Vibrators leather bars and good old fashioned sodomy have never looked more wholesome than they do in The Kid 31 The Star Ledger reviewer commented It s a really funny show And rather touching as well A lot of the jokes are based on the would be adoptive couple being two men But the sharp humor is balanced with a sweetness and humanity that makes their emotional experience relatable for everyone 32 The New York Post gave the musical a rating of three and a half out of four stars with reviewer Elisabeth Vincentelli writing The administrative roller coaster provides a gold mine of amusing material but this tender funny show is more about the emotional journey of becoming a parent for the first time 33 A review in the New York Daily News commented The show is well meaning but surprisingly bland and corny 7 Jesse Oxfeld wrote for The New York Observer Michael Zam s script is often very funny and can occasionally be moving But at two and a half hours including intermission with 22 musical numbers and that mess of characters there is a lack of focus 34 See also edit nbsp Books portal nbsp LGBT portal Heterosexism LGBT adoption LGBT parenting LGBT rights Same sex marriages and civil unions Preacher s Sons a documentary about a gay adoptive couple Mommy Mommy a documentary about a lesbian adoptive coupleReferences edit a b Rapp Linda 2006 Savage Dan b 1964 glbtq Chicago Illinois glbtq Inc Archived from the original on June 4 2011 Retrieved May 31 2011 a b Pories Kathy 2004 The M Word Writers on Same Sex Marriage Algonquin Books p 191 ISBN 978 1 56512 454 7 a b Columnist Dan Savage to read at Lucy s Books The Daily Astorian Astoria Oregon October 31 2002 a b Daddy s TV Roommates Gay Parenting The Advocate March 20 2000 p 24 a b McFadden Kay February 25 2000 Dan Savage s book about becoming a parent is optioned for TV The Seattle Times Retrieved May 27 2011 a b c d e f g Healy Patricia May 7 2010 A Gay Adoption Becomes a Musical The New York Times p C1 Retrieved May 27 2011 a b c d Dziemianowicz Joe May 11 2010 Dan Savage s The Kid musical is boring baby that needs to grow up New York Daily News Retrieved May 27 2011 a b Musical based on Dan Savage memoir opens Monday Seattle Post Intelligencer May 9 2010 p Web Edition Big Blog a b Smith Sidonie Julia Watson 2010 Reading Autobiography A Guide for Interpreting Life Narratives University Of Minnesota Press pp 152 270 271 ISBN 978 0 8166 6986 8 a b c d e f g The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant Book Review Reed Business Information Inc September 1999 a href Template Cite book html title Template Cite book cite book a work ignored help Miya Jervis Lisa Andi Zeisler 2006 BITCHfest Ten Years of Cultural Criticism from the Pages of Bitch Magazine Farrar Straus and Giroux p 233 ISBN 0 374 11343 2 Stacey Judith February 2006 Gay parenthood and the decline of paternity as we knew it Sexualities 9 27 55 27 55 doi 10 1177 1363460706060687 S2CID 143934572 Askeland Lori 2005 Children and Youth in Adoption Orphanages and Foster Care A Historical Handbook and Guide Greenwood p 51 ISBN 978 0 313 33183 1 Dail Laura 2004 Truly Yours Thoughts on the Miracle of Adoption Andrews McMeel Publishing p 52 ISBN 978 0 7407 4172 2 Shonkwiler Alison 2008 THE SELFISH ENOUGH FATHER Gay Adoption and the Late Capitalist Family GLQ A Journal of Lesbian and Gay Studies 14 4 Duke University Press 537 567 doi 10 1215 10642684 2008 004 S2CID 146792095 Savage Dan 1999 The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant Dutton ISBN 978 0 525 94525 3 OCLC 41445757 OCLC 57538033 Savage Dan 2000 The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant Fusion Press ISBN 1 901250 70 9 OCLC 59569701 Savage Dan 2000 The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant Penguin Putnam Inc ISBN 978 0 452 28176 9 Savage Dan 2000 The Kid What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant Plume ISBN 978 0 452 28176 9 Savage Dan 2002 Due Uomini E Una Culla in Italian Tascabili Degli Editori ISBN 88 502 0097 8 Lapidus June 2004 All the Lesbian Mothers are Coupled all the Single Mothers are Straight and all of us are Tired Reflections on being a Single Lesbian Mom Feminist Economics 10 2 227 236 doi 10 1080 1354570042000217784 S2CID 154939284 Gottlieb Andrew R 2003 Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers Life Curves Routledge p 6 ISBN 1 56023 179 3 Dahlstrom Linda November 3 1999 The Kid tells tale of gay adoption Seattle writer tells story of his unusual journey into fatherhood The News Tribune p SL3 Florio Gwen November 29 1999 The Kid puts crimp in sex life of columnist now that he s a parent a gay dispenser of sex advice has less experience to draw from The Philadelphia Inquirer p F05 Wineke William R June 15 2000 Dan Savage Wisconsin State Journal Madison Wisconsin p 9 a b Lindsey Daryl October 1 1999 From Hey Faggot to Hey Daddy Salon salon com Retrieved May 26 2011 Itzkoff Dave May 16 2009 Arts briefly Broderick and Lonergan in With New Group The New York Times p C2 Retrieved May 31 2011 Vibrators leather bars have never looked more wholesome Seattle Post Intelligencer May 11 2010 p Web Edition Big Blog Feldberg Robert May 12 2010 The Kid is all right Gay couple try to adopt in charming new musical The Star Ledger p 035 Vincentelli Elisabeth May 11 2010 Tender quest for paternal sunshine New York Post p 041 Oxfeld Jesse May 12 2010 Remember Shmomosexuals The New York Observer Further reading editHicks Stephen Janet McDermott 1998 Lesbian and Gay Fostering and Adoption Extraordinary Yet Ordinary Jessica Kingsley Pub ISBN 978 1 85302 600 3 Mallon Gerald P 2006 Lesbian and Gay Foster and Adoptive Parents Recruiting Assessing and Supporting an Untapped Resource for Children and Youth CWLA Press Child Welfare League of America ISBN 978 1 58760 104 0 Garner Abigail 2005 Families Like Mine Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is Harper ISBN 978 0 06 052758 7 External links editDan Savage s The Kid and 5 Other Gay Memoirs That Went Big Queerty The Kid Book Review Narth Reviewed By James E Phelan LCSW Retrieved from https en wikipedia org w index php title The Kid book amp oldid 1221641999, wikipedia, wiki, book, books, library,

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