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A Better Man (film)

November 10, 2023

A Better Man is a 2017 Canadian documentary film co-directed by Attiya Khan and Lawrence Jackman in which Khan, a survivor of domestic abuse, meets with the man who abused her to see if he can take responsibility to heal and repair the harms he created. The first filmed encounter between her and her ex-boyfriend, identified only as "Steve," took place in April 2013. After the initial contact, several of the conversations were facilitated by Tod Augusta-Scott, a prominent counselor in the domestic violence field.[1][2][3] The film also follows them back to their old high school as well as an apartment in Ottawa, and shows how the violence still affects Khan.[4]

A Better Man
Directed byAttiya Khan
Lawrence Jackman
Written byAttiya Khan
Lawrence Jackman
Produced byChristine Kleckner
Justine Pimlott
CinematographyIris Ng
Edited byLawrence Jackman
Music byLesley Barber
Production
companies
Intervention Productions
National Film Board of Canada
Release date
  • 30 April 2017 (2017-04-30) (Hot Docs)
Running time
79 minutes
CountryCanada
LanguageEnglish

The film was financed through crowdfunding on Indiegogo; it raised over $110,000 CAD, making it one of the most successful crowdfunding campaigns in Canadian history.[5] Upon release, it received mostly positive reviews from critics,[6][7] and was chosen as one of the top 10 best films of 2017 by The Globe and Mail.[8]

Background edit

After leaving Steve when she was 19, Khan would continue to encounter him in public. The first time she saw him, two years after she left him, Khan was weak and speechless. But as they continued to meet by chance over a six-year period, and her life continued to improve, they'd exchange a few minutes of small talk. It was during such chance encounter in 2011 that Steve asked if they could sit down. Once seated, Steve repeatedly apologized before bursting into tears.[9][4]

In the ensuing years, Khan wondered if talking to Steve more might help her deal with her trauma, and help Steve to better understand the roots and consequences of his violence and make him less likely to reoffend. She also decided to try to record such a dialogue as a resource for both domestic abuse survivors and offenders. She proposed such an idea to Steve in 2013. Six months later, he texted her that he was ready to meet. Two days later, they did so at a coffee shop for their first recorded exchange. Khan and her ex-abuser would go on film eight days together over the course of a year, sharing their memories and experiences and with Steve facing the consequences of what he did.[9][10]

Production edit

A Better Man was co-produced by Intervention Productions (prod. Christine Kleckner) and the National Film Board of Canada (prod. Justine Pimlott), and executive produced by Sarah Polley, Anita Lee, Jane Jankovic, Janice Dawe, and Kathy Aurich-Johnson. The music was composed by Lesley Barber.[11] Iris Ng was the film's cinematographer, having previously worked with Polley on Stories We Tell.[5]

A Better Man was co-written and co-directed by Attiya Khan. Attiya Khan is a Canadian filmmaker, anti-violence activist, and intimate partner violence survivor.[12][13] She graduated with a degree in women's studies and psychology from the University of Toronto. Her interest in helping others who have experienced domestic violence led her to take the Assaulted Women's and Children's Counsellor/Advocate program at George Brown College. Her career highlights include overseeing the Children and Youth Services Program at Transition House in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and wide-ranging roles including frontline work, management and training with YWCA Toronto.[14][12] She is based in Toronto.

Crowdfunding edit

The film was crowd-sourced through an Indiegogo campaign, with Feist among the donors, contributing $10,000.[15] The campaign would go on to raise over $110,000—one of the most successful crowdfunding campaigns in Canadian history.[5]

Release edit

The film screened at numerous film festivals and had its world premiere at the Hot Docs Canadian International Documentary Festival,[9] where it was considered "one of Hot Docs most stirring films."[16]

Today A Better Man continues to play at international film festivals and violence against women events. The film also plays on occasion at Hot Docs in Toronto, Ontario.[17]

Distribution edit

A Better Man is distributed in the United States by Women Make Movies.

Reception edit

Since its release, the film has received mostly positive reviews from critics; Kate Taylor of The Globe and Mail listed the film in her top 10 list of films for 2017.[8]

The New Yorker film reviewer Doreen St. Félix commended the film's "cleverness" and wrote that "it resists the roundness of resolution or catharsis".[6] Arwa Mahdawi of The Guardian described the film as "a call to action for abusive men to stand up and take responsibility for their anger and their actions."[18] CBC host of The Current Anna Maria Tremonti stated that "there is a lot of raw emotion in this film and there is a lot hope."[19] Maclean's reported that "the film manages to be simultaneously agonizing and hopeful… it is revelatory to know these kinds of [restorative] conversations are possible."[20] Miriam Bale of Vulture.com called the film a "revolutionary documentary."[7]

The Hollywood Reporter published a less enthusiastic review, concluding that "the vagueness and ambiguity of the situations eventually proves frustrating and detract from the film's power."[21]

National Film Board of Canada made a review saying "A Better Man offers a fresh and nuanced look at the healing and revelation that can happen for everyone involved when men take responsibility for their abuse"[1], commenting on the films use of healing process in domestic violence situations.

See also edit

References edit

  1. ^ A Better Man to be screened in Sudbury CBC, Oct.17, 2017
  2. ^ Bridges Institute
  3. ^ Tod Augusta-Scott (ed.). Innovations in Interventions to Address Intimate Partner Violence: Research and Practice. (Routledge Press, 2017)
  4. ^ a b Keeler, Emily M. (26 April 2017). "Q&A: Attiya Khan, the filmmaker who confronted the man who abused her in a new documentary, A Better Man". Toronto Life. Retrieved 23 May 2017.
  5. ^ a b c Ritchie, Kevin (26 April 2017). "Iris Ng, one of Toronto's busiest documentary cinematographers, returns to Hot Docs". NOW Magazine. Retrieved 23 May 2017.
  6. ^ a b "After Abuse, the Possibility of A Better Man". The New Yorker. Retrieved 2018-01-11.
  7. ^ a b Bale, Miriam. "A Better Man's Attiya Khan on Why She Confronted Her Longtime Abuser on Camera". Vulture. Retrieved 2018-01-11.
  8. ^ a b "The year in critical viewing: Kate Taylor's top 10 films of 2017". Retrieved 2018-01-11.
  9. ^ a b c Chapin, Angelina (5 May 2017). "Why Would a Woman Want to Talk to the Man Who Abused Her?". The Cut. New York magazine. Retrieved 23 May 2017.
  10. ^ "'Has it affected him?' Woman confronts her abuser in documentary A Better Man". The Current with Anna Maria Tremonti. CBC Radio. 2017-04-25. Retrieved 2017-05-23.
  11. ^ Halligan, Fionnuala (9 May 2017). "A Better Man: Hot Docs Review". Screen Daily. Retrieved 23 May 2017.
  12. ^ a b "About – A Better Man". abettermanfilm.com. Retrieved 2018-03-07.
  13. ^ Mahdawi, Arwa (2017-11-15). "Attiya Khan: why I confronted the boyfriend who beat me – and made a film about it". the Guardian. Retrieved 2018-03-07.
  14. ^ "Attiya Khan · Kickass Canadians". kickasscanadians.ca. Retrieved 2018-03-07.
  15. ^ Vlessing, Etan (12 November 2014). "Feist Backs Indiegogo Campaign for Canadian Sex Abuse Doc". The Hollywood Reporter. Retrieved 23 May 2017.
  16. ^ Digital Journal
  17. ^ "Better Man - Hot Docs". www.hotdocs.ca. Retrieved 2018-04-01.
  18. ^ "Attiya Khan: why I confronted the boyfriend who beat me – and made a film about it". The Guardian. 2017-11-15. from the original on 2022-10-01.
  19. ^ "'Has it affected him?' Woman confronts her abuser in documentary A Better Man | CBC Radio". CBC News. 2017-04-25. from the original on 2023-06-09.
  20. ^ MacLean's
  21. ^ Scheck, Frank (8 May 2017). "A Better Man: Film Review". The Hollywood Reporter. Retrieved 23 May 2017.

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A Better Man is a 2017 Canadian documentary film co directed by Attiya Khan and Lawrence Jackman in which Khan a survivor of domestic abuse meets with the man who abused her to see if he can take responsibility to heal and repair the harms he created The first filmed encounter between her and her ex boyfriend identified only as Steve took place in April 2013 After the initial contact several of the conversations were facilitated by Tod Augusta Scott a prominent counselor in the domestic violence field 1 2 3 The film also follows them back to their old high school as well as an apartment in Ottawa and shows how the violence still affects Khan 4 A Better ManDirected byAttiya KhanLawrence JackmanWritten byAttiya KhanLawrence JackmanProduced byChristine KlecknerJustine PimlottCinematographyIris NgEdited byLawrence JackmanMusic byLesley BarberProductioncompaniesIntervention ProductionsNational Film Board of CanadaRelease date30 April 2017 2017 04 30 Hot Docs Running time79 minutesCountryCanadaLanguageEnglishThe film was financed through crowdfunding on Indiegogo it raised over 110 000 CAD making it one of the most successful crowdfunding campaigns in Canadian history 5 Upon release it received mostly positive reviews from critics 6 7 and was chosen as one of the top 10 best films of 2017 by The Globe and Mail 8 Contents 1 Background 2 Production 2 1 Crowdfunding 3 Release 4 Distribution 4 1 Reception 5 See also 6 References 7 External linksBackground editAfter leaving Steve when she was 19 Khan would continue to encounter him in public The first time she saw him two years after she left him Khan was weak and speechless But as they continued to meet by chance over a six year period and her life continued to improve they d exchange a few minutes of small talk It was during such chance encounter in 2011 that Steve asked if they could sit down Once seated Steve repeatedly apologized before bursting into tears 9 4 In the ensuing years Khan wondered if talking to Steve more might help her deal with her trauma and help Steve to better understand the roots and consequences of his violence and make him less likely to reoffend She also decided to try to record such a dialogue as a resource for both domestic abuse survivors and offenders She proposed such an idea to Steve in 2013 Six months later he texted her that he was ready to meet Two days later they did so at a coffee shop for their first recorded exchange Khan and her ex abuser would go on film eight days together over the course of a year sharing their memories and experiences and with Steve facing the consequences of what he did 9 10 Production editA Better Man was co produced by Intervention Productions prod Christine Kleckner and the National Film Board of Canada prod Justine Pimlott and executive produced by Sarah Polley Anita Lee Jane Jankovic Janice Dawe and Kathy Aurich Johnson The music was composed by Lesley Barber 11 Iris Ng was the film s cinematographer having previously worked with Polley on Stories We Tell 5 A Better Man was co written and co directed by Attiya Khan Attiya Khan is a Canadian filmmaker anti violence activist and intimate partner violence survivor 12 13 She graduated with a degree in women s studies and psychology from the University of Toronto Her interest in helping others who have experienced domestic violence led her to take the Assaulted Women s and Children s Counsellor Advocate program at George Brown College Her career highlights include overseeing the Children and Youth Services Program at Transition House in Cambridge Massachusetts and wide ranging roles including frontline work management and training with YWCA Toronto 14 12 She is based in Toronto Crowdfunding edit The film was crowd sourced through an Indiegogo campaign with Feist among the donors contributing 10 000 15 The campaign would go on to raise over 110 000 one of the most successful crowdfunding campaigns in Canadian history 5 Release editThe film screened at numerous film festivals and had its world premiere at the Hot Docs Canadian International Documentary Festival 9 where it was considered one of Hot Docs most stirring films 16 Today A Better Man continues to play at international film festivals and violence against women events The film also plays on occasion at Hot Docs in Toronto Ontario 17 Distribution editA Better Man is distributed in the United States by Women Make Movies Reception edit Since its release the film has received mostly positive reviews from critics Kate Taylor of The Globe and Mail listed the film in her top 10 list of films for 2017 8 The New Yorker film reviewer Doreen St Felix commended the film s cleverness and wrote that it resists the roundness of resolution or catharsis 6 Arwa Mahdawi of The Guardian described the film as a call to action for abusive men to stand up and take responsibility for their anger and their actions 18 CBC host of The Current Anna Maria Tremonti stated that there is a lot of raw emotion in this film and there is a lot hope 19 Maclean s reported that the film manages to be simultaneously agonizing and hopeful it is revelatory to know these kinds of restorative conversations are possible 20 Miriam Bale of Vulture com called the film a revolutionary documentary 7 The Hollywood Reporter published a less enthusiastic review concluding that the vagueness and ambiguity of the situations eventually proves frustrating and detract from the film s power 21 National Film Board of Canada made a review saying A Better Man offers a fresh and nuanced look at the healing and revelation that can happen for everyone involved when men take responsibility for their abuse 1 commenting on the films use of healing process in domestic violence situations See also editRestorative justice Domestic violence Domestic Violence Documentaries Sexual Violence Thordis Elva book of rape and responsibility References edit A Better Man to be screened in Sudbury CBC Oct 17 2017 Bridges Institute Tod Augusta Scott ed Innovations in Interventions to Address Intimate Partner Violence Research and Practice Routledge Press 2017 a b Keeler Emily M 26 April 2017 Q amp A Attiya Khan the filmmaker who confronted the man who abused her in a new documentary A Better Man Toronto Life Retrieved 23 May 2017 a b c Ritchie Kevin 26 April 2017 Iris Ng one of Toronto s busiest documentary cinematographers returns to Hot Docs NOW Magazine Retrieved 23 May 2017 a b After Abuse the Possibility of A Better Man The New Yorker Retrieved 2018 01 11 a b Bale Miriam A Better Man s Attiya Khan on Why She Confronted Her Longtime Abuser on Camera Vulture Retrieved 2018 01 11 a b The year in critical viewing Kate Taylor s top 10 films of 2017 Retrieved 2018 01 11 a b c Chapin Angelina 5 May 2017 Why Would a Woman Want to Talk to the Man Who Abused Her The Cut New York magazine Retrieved 23 May 2017 Has it affected him Woman confronts her abuser in documentary A Better Man The Current with Anna Maria Tremonti CBC Radio 2017 04 25 Retrieved 2017 05 23 Halligan Fionnuala 9 May 2017 A Better Man Hot Docs Review Screen Daily Retrieved 23 May 2017 a b About A Better Man abettermanfilm com Retrieved 2018 03 07 Mahdawi Arwa 2017 11 15 Attiya Khan why I confronted the boyfriend who beat me and made a film about it the Guardian Retrieved 2018 03 07 Attiya Khan Kickass Canadians kickasscanadians ca Retrieved 2018 03 07 Vlessing Etan 12 November 2014 Feist Backs Indiegogo Campaign for Canadian Sex Abuse Doc The Hollywood Reporter Retrieved 23 May 2017 Digital Journal Better Man Hot Docs www hotdocs ca Retrieved 2018 04 01 Attiya Khan why I confronted the boyfriend who beat me and made a film about it The Guardian 2017 11 15 Archived from the original on 2022 10 01 Has it affected him Woman confronts her abuser in documentary A Better Man CBC Radio CBC News 2017 04 25 Archived from the original on 2023 06 09 MacLean s Scheck Frank 8 May 2017 A Better Man Film Review The Hollywood Reporter 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